Geez so many butthurts...

OP: You shouldn't have made such a big deal out of this. I'll explain in a way that is easily understood what happened here:

That guy is a chump. And he wants chicks. He doesn't know what to do. He searches, he finds. He truly believes that seeming cool might suffice. In the end it turns out he just knows what the game is, and doesn't know how to do it. When a woman is gamed properly, she is turned on, her mind is blown off, and she feels pleasured. That's what REAL game is, not being a pathetic wuss who read a book and thinks he knows it all then acts all butthurt over being rejected.

About some posts here saying that guys have to take all the risks. This is stupid on so many levels. Society has double standards for women too. If a woman has sex on the first date she's labeled as a slut. That's not too fair either. Each time a woman has sex she takes risk. Much bigger risk then just being rejected by some girl you hardly know, like it is with us guys. Stop acting like men are society's martyrs and start growing a pair. It's not just woman, it's a general rule in life, if you want something, you have to work for it and you will have to take risks. Get used to this.

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The trouble with a lot of dick heads out there is that they truly believe they DESERVE a 9 or a 10. That's why they fail and let me tell you that a lot of them then turn into women haters and think all women are bitches because they wouldn't go out with them. Stick to your own level and that way you can stop making complete fools of yourselves. It's the male ego that is the problem. Get rid of it and you'll do so much better. Girls do like nice guys so where you're getting all that crap from that they don't is beyond me. Who wants to go out with some jumped up, macho, moody, knuckle scraping, moody jerk showing her who's boss? Get real.

This is especially true online. I have girl friends online who get rejected by guys would wouldn't even have the balls to approach them in real life. For some reason guys get "Online Goggles" (c)TheFury btw and think that somehow they deserve 9s and 10s online when they are happy when the pull a 6 at the bar.

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Don't be angry when someone uses canned material on you. (Especially online)

Btw getting gamed could have sucked alot more than just finding out your prince charming was just a frog over the phone.

Well sure, of course around here most people will tell you that a big part of inner game IS believing you deserve a 9 or a 10.
You should probably talk to the OP about that... as soon as the guy seemed shy she got turned off. She probably would prefer the jumped up, macho kinda guy.

1) She got turned off because she felt she was lied to.

2) Shy does not equal nice. You can be social, outgoing, have abundance with women(Note: I just listed the things that OP found attractive at first) and still be a nice person. Shy however communicates insecurity. Not at all attractive.

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I posted an attractive female pic and ad once on a dating site to see what sort of response was out there. I got about 200 responses in two days. 90% of the responses seemed like social awkward guys that particular girl would of had no interest in by the first pic or response. The other 20 or so guys were all shy and it was amazing that apparently the better looking ones who claimed to be successful couldn't get a date in person thus resorting to paying an online service. The guys I've known over the years who did online dating were awkward.


You did say something which caught my eye. He said on the phone if a girl ever got over 130 that would be grounds to dump her. That's a pretty fair way for a guy to feel in the initial stages of a connection although it wasn't necessary to say. He's just being honest, I doubt he was joking, but possibly his way to weed women out. You post here like The 130 pound joke is the point of where things started to go wrong then, and most likely and possibly unbeknownst to you, why you are making the thread now.

You may need to evaluate yourself and not be concerned with some online caption or telephone call from 2 or 3 years ago. He was a phone nerd in your eyes b/c he told you he expects a girl to watch her weight. real life nerds don't give a fuck how big a woman is.