So I was talking to this girl through an online site and we have sent reach other about 6/7 messages and I ended up starting to ask her the "if you could have one thing in your life so that life is worthwhile..." question.

She didn't respond and the next evening I asked her is she was goin to play the game from last night i.e. the above question...

She said yes and apologised, she fell asleep and was working til 9 today. She asked could we play tomoroow as she had a birthday party tonight. She gave me her number and asked me if I have this App for sending free texts, which I don't and can't get on my phone.

I replied by saying I would contact her tomorrow.

It's been four days and I haven't been in touch. How should I approach this, should I recontact her through the website, or txt her even though I don't have the free App she asked about and also the txt may be a bit out of the blue....

Thanks

I'm guessing the app you're talking about is wassapp or w/e, idk, I don't have it either, even though people tell me all the time to get it.


Uhm... I don't have the context of the talk, but she seems like a bit of a cold bitch. If I asked a girl that question and she didn't answer back, I'd think she's a brainless moron who didn't think too much about life (aka, a girl I'd avoid - I dislike stupid shallow people). Anyway, perhaps she though your question was a bit too personal or too deep, I normally save those sorts of question for long talks or dates, since they can lead to some nice conversations that are very introspective.

My advice is, forget about it for... idk, about a week or so. Then message her asking her if she wants to meet up for something, she bails, forget it and move on. Oh, make sure it's something low pressure (coffee's always good). Normal people like to have talks with seemingly interesting people during noon, so lets hope she's not one of those boring dry cunts.

Oh, and btw... You DO know why that "if you could have one thing in your life..." question is for right? Quit using canned lines so meaninglessly, that might have been your problem, you threw out the question like you're following some sort of guideline. Forget about that shit, and next time you ask a girl that question, make sure it's cause you GENUINELY wanna know how she replies, so you can get a reading on her character. If you're trying to bed women using canned lines you won't ever get anywhere, you should be selective and judgemental of the girls you're meeting, that's what those questions are for...