Hello! I am very new to this forum and I have been reading a lot about Sarging techniques and I was tempted to try anything out and talk to a girl and I remember reading that spontaneity is always helpful so I took advantage of a Facebook chat. My goal was to just do it.

A little back story to the conversation ~

This girl is a complete stranger, Her picture popped up in my news feed because someone liked a picture of hers. The picture was of herself and the way that she took the picture had a mirrored image of herself so it looked like she was conjoined so I said to myself "why not". Every response from her was extremely fast, and I was literally making every single piece of information off the top of my head about (so don't quote me on any factual information)

Me: I don't know how your profile popped up in my news feed, but I would like to just apologize for any humiliation that comes with being a conjoined twin, How does that work being conjoined at the legs anyways?

HB7: I'm not a conjoined twin
I doubled my picture
Awkward

Me:
That's too bad, two is always better than one!

HB7: I am a twin though
But we aren't conjoined

Me: Oh cool, I was just talking to my friend about this maybe you could answer the question I have. Is it true that one twin is smarter than the other?

HB7: Yea it is
I get straight A's, my sister has a lot of trouble in school

Me: That's insane! are there some other things where you lack and she strives in?

HB7: She can sing really good and I can't

Me: I wrote a term paper for college for my psychology class last semester, and I had a theory about twins, who was born first?

HB7: My sister

Me: I ask because I read that because you were born second you lack an emotional / sensual receptor, and I mean that by the feeling of physical connection with other people when you're with them.

HB7: I yea. Well that makes sense

Me: Yeah, it's just something that your sister has, I am assuming, and it's tough to connect with people on a physical level, Do you find yourself looking for connections with people that fill that "missing" part?

HB7: Yea all the time

Me: Well it was a pleasure to talk to you about this, I have to get going, but I wish you the best of luck running into someone that understands that void because I could imagine how tough it could be.

HB7: lol well nice talk, good night

Me: Have a good night *HB's name*


This was my first time actually starting a completely random conversation with no reason to talk to someone on a chat and just "winging" every sentence off the top of my head, I am open to any thoughts / tips / what I should have done better.

Thanks again guys!

She definitely isn't interested judging by her short, unenthusiastic answers. But I commend you for finding your balls and just making an attempt. Its the best way to practice.

Now, texting/messaging is tough unless there is previous rapport. Without the rapport, girls may just assume you were looking through her pictures or something and are now trying to connect. Not good.
By maybe the 3rd or 4th back and forth, you have to make a decision to either back out gracefully or continue to fish for conversation.

Its easy to determine:
1. If she has short, non-emoticon answers for you – Bail
2. If she doesn’t ask follow up questions – Bail
3. If she answers “Hey! Long time no talk =)” - Stay

Just assume that if she is even remotely into you, she will give you attention.

What you don’t want to happen:

1. She thinks you’re sarging on Facebook.
2. Trying too hard to continue the conversation, forcing HER to end it.
3. She thinks you are creepy.

You’ll develop your “red flag” radar eventually.

Have fun man,

"How do you I facebook .... "

Simple: YOU DON'T. Use tinder or similar apps or a real dating site.

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RiRi -

Thank you very much for replying back to my thread and I understand where you were coming from when you say I have to kind of feel it out on her responses, I will take that on next time (which there most likely won't be any attempts with future online sarging)

I used this to kind of push the limits and I did gain a lot from your posts, in which I could even use in F2F contact!

Bro, I wouldn't use Facebook to sarge. Ever.

Get her number, start texting/calling and go do something with her.

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why? Because I would rather try something once to learn from it then to not try it at all.

This forum is called Online Sarging, and seeing as how Facebook is an online source, I was expecting more support than a flaming... Bro.

The online sarging itself is just super difficult if its a cold approach. And I count reaching out to people you kinda of know as a cold approach.

If you do anything online, make sure you already have some rapport with the person. Always good to lay groundwork in person though, like talk about funny memes or pictures or videos. Then you have an excuse to send her a link/pic/vid and she wont think its "random."

You have to layer your interactions so that you are basically giving yourself permission to text her. When you just start a convo with "hey", it doesnt have much impact does it? Women do this too, and when you can sense it from THEM, you know exactly what they are thinking... they want to talk to you. Am I making sense?

So work your game in reality, then amplify and deepen rapport online if you want.

Have fun!

If you put a post up here about finding women on CNN.com that is also "online sarging" technically, but still idiotic. Use apps and online dating, gaming women randomly on facebook is extremely low percentage and not worth wasting your time on. That is better advice than me trying to help you increase your odds of success from 0% to 0.1%

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I always try to help guys out here, and this is no different. There's no need for you to get defensive/offended over it (flaming...for expressing an opinion about facebook? really?). Facebook is not the right place to attract women - at best it's an accessory to use once you've already established rapport. It's even more low-yield than dating sites like okcupid. Of course, you're free to do what you want and find this out the hard way.

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Bro, you tried in-field sarging techniques online! Never do that! In a pub or a bar, you would have number-closed with such a routine, but online is a completely different thing. If you want to follow up on her, PM me.