Ive joined an online dating site (match.com) and see some beautiful girls. Some look like they are full of themselves but others look like they are just naturally beautiful and dont care to wear much make up or flashy clothes. they are just hot! and the sweet type... at least look like it in the pics.

So what a good opener for the Cocky flashy ten?

and

Whats a good opener for that sweet church girl ten?

From a woman's POV, the best way to start talking to a beautiful girl is not NOT tell her she's beautiful. Chances are she's told that, in one way or another, every day of her life. My suggestion, READ her profile and find out what she's interested in, and start up a conversation about that. Better if it's something you are interested in as well.

And be careful, as you have already put these women up so high that you aren't even treating them like real people. You're completely judging their personalities by their pictures or clothing, and that can be VERY deceiving. If you think these girls are 10's, and you're not also a 10, you've already given them all the power in your mind by worshiping the way they look.

This might come as a shock to you but girls, even HOT girls, are PEOPLE with lives and interests and unique personalities. You're not ordering something off Ebay (Hot 10 Sweet Looking Church Girl Age 25). You're communicating with a REAL LIVE PERSON!! Just act like one.

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well lets say you Added her or shes your friend .. the way i strike up a congo .. i found these on the forum(dont know who to give credit to :/ )


PUA: Woww.... we're match/fb/online friends and you havent even said hi yet ....

PUA: dtngiowrngoaienrgriaen
Her: ????
PUA: uqfbwrugbaurg
Her: gnoirngiseniotenh
PUA: wow ! you speak gibberish too !, you're dirtier than i thought

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The best way is for you to make sure you have a great online profile! Then when women contact you, you are in the selling position. She is showing interest in you. The key to online game is a great profile photo and have a funny and challenging "about you" section.

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Couldn't have said it better myself Rick! I'd also add to original to "funny" and "challenging". You have to be real and you have to stand out. Most guys try to guess what women want and write their profile accordingly, or they are too worried about being too "out there" and turning women off, so they just write something generic. I help guys write profiles for a living and have read literally thousands of them, and sadly, about 90% are basically exactly the same. If you don't have superstar looks, (and even if you do) you MUST have a great ABOUT section. Trust me, women read EVERY word and there are things that are absolute instant turn-offs in most guy's profile. Know them and avoid them!

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