I don't have a pic of my face on my okcupid profile(I state why in my profile). I also state in my profile "I'm Asian but most people can't figure out what kind - ask me and I'll tell you"

so then I get a message from a cute looking girl (hb8 probably) saying: I reeeeeeally wanna take a guess of where abouts in Asia you're from ​​


How should I reply to that? Obviously show her a proper photo, but I need something I can say in return that won't make me look needy.

All help would be greatly appreciated thanks, I don't wanna keep her waiting too long.

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The Asian Don(in the future anyways... )

Something playful and funny that lends itself to more convo.

"The good parts"

Is not a great response, the following are better, I think:


"Okay.. but promise you wont google search a map of Asia"

"I'll give you 3 guesses"

"If you guess wrong, you'll have to tell me a little secret about yourself. I'll do the same if you guess right"

...etc

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thanks bro

I msged her a pic and said "go on, I'll let you have two guesses "

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The Asian Don(in the future anyways... )

Was chatting with this girl and it's going really well. She's definitely interested. However I recently learned how to do a back search on images so I did it on her images and found her facebook, instagram and twitter lol. She's definitely a real person and seems to have an interest in asian culture and pop bands(which is good for me) however it looks like she lied about her location on her profile(shes up north, I'm down south) and I think she has a boyfriend.

How annoying, she's definitely a hb8 and would bang fo-sho, but I can't be asked for some long distance crap. She's may just be on there to boost her ego or have some fun if she already has a boyfriend.

Out of politeness I'll still reply to her messages but if she suggests I call her or anything I'll say I've started seeing someone.

/next

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The Asian Don(in the future anyways... )

Continue anyway. See his far you can push it.

Nothing to lose, I'm sure you learn something from it.

Not all girls with bf's are happy, so you could be the branch if she is indeed interested.

Location sucks, but see how far you can take it.

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Should I just play along and pretend that I didn't find her facebook?

I think I'll ask her where she's from and if she lies and says london, well I dunno if I can be asked to reply anymore, maybe I should call her out(but be nice about it and say we can be friends?) but if she admits she's in norwich maybe I can just add her on facebook and chat to her every now and then when I feel like it without really gaming her(I really have no interest or motivation in a long distance thing, I can't drive anyway!) I guess you could say just be friends with her. Then if by any chance she comes to university in London next year I could make my moves then?

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The Asian Don(in the future anyways... )

Up to you bro.

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