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A lot of smoking hot like 10 year older women wink at me; what could I email these women to show I just want sex - and feel them out for that on a first email? Its match .com so don't want to be too blunt and piss off the ones looking for relatiosnhips either...
(1) Do you fall into their "age range" or are they 35 year olds looking for 35-45 but they winked at you and you are 25, if so, you don't need to worry about them, they probably just want sex, so you are already on the same page, just get a meeting and escalate.
(3) If they are 35 and their range is like 25-45, hell, I would still follow the same advice. Women know that guys think sex first, relationship later, you don't have to worry about their feelings. They know what they are getting themselves into.
As an older woman myself who has been online dating for a while, I'd agree with the above. You don't need a line with older women - they know the score. If you are out of their age range they WILL NOT be expecting a relationship. But be warned!!
It doesn't mean they want sex either. Sometimes they just want a little ego boost of having a younger man want them and flirt with them. I wouldn't spend too much time on them. Either they will want to meet right away (for sex) or they wont.
When a younger man contacts me I ALWAYS assume it is only for sex - he doesn't have to make that clear in some cheesy line.
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