Hey Guys?

I'd appreciate all your input on this. I'm relatively new at the online dating game. I have a profile at pof. I'm a relatively good looking guy. I really like my profile and I think it's a pretty good extension of my personality but I'm not really getting responses to the messages I've been sending out. And I don't just send out "hey. how's it going messages". I've done my research and I know not to sound like everyone else.

Here is my profile.

profile_id=31101470

Be as honest and mean as you need to be. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

Some things off the top of my head...

It's a little too long and wordy...

"You can take me out for dinner and drinks" is kinda ridiculous

Stuff like "no kids (that I know of...)" must go immediately...

It just seems in general that you're trying kinda hard.

The profile itself isn't as important as the content of your messages........ Your messages need to be striking and genuine; it doesn't matter what is on your profile BUT a good default picture is a MUST.

Basically, it is obvious that you're "shaping" your personality for these women... A person who has written as much as you should have way more pictures, for one thing. It doesn't come off as being genuine.

Personally, I'd just go with the second picture and a more sparse profile... WORK THE MESSAGES.

Hey gnecco,

I agree with above, it is too long and just trying too hard. Also, only use the second photo. NEVER use a photo that has another woman (ie your ex) cropped out of it. It's a total turn off to women.

Also, listing things that you don't like ie "don't message me if" is not the way to go. Women are not attracted to that. It screams of a bitter man who has been burned by women in the past who said/did those things you are listing. Much better to say what you DO want - then you will attract it.

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Cheers,

Profile Diva

PS - check your spelling & grammar - girls totally notice that!

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