I searched but couldn't find anything on this.

Been tanking to this girl on POF, we're been having some good conversations for the last week or so and she has been responding well. Last night I put a date proposal forward but she said she said that date was "no good" and didn't propose an alternative time when she would be free.

HER: What a coincidence! I've been soooooo ill these last few days! You feeling better?

Name a day and time and I'll see what I can do! I'm popular you see lol x

ME: Aww no have you been confined to your bed like a potato? I'm over the worst now but have been sneezing my brains out all day haha, not ideal having a sneezing fit on the M4!

Ok little miss popular, pick you up Friday, 4:03pm, Link Centre rock climbing! However, if you have a phobia of heights then I guess a casual drink will do x

HER: I was literally confined to my bed for 3 days. The most boring 3 days of my life!!! Lol! Hmm, I can imagine that was definitely not ideal!

Friday is no good I'm afraid. Rock climbing, jeeeze haven't done that in years. A few drinks is definitely a safer option! Don't think you'd appreciate me moaning about how scared I am if heights the whole time!! Lol x

It seems like she is genuinely busy as the rest of the message is quite positive. I know it is usually a IOD when they don't suggest another time but this situation seems a little more difficult to read. I know a lot of girls really don't like taking the initiative when it comes to arranging dates and sometimes all it takes is for the guy to suggest another date.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this?

next her under the condition that you would like to meet her and leave it in her hands until then,

stop hitting her up all the time, just put it in her hands, you would like to meet her, she can call you when she is interested in hanging out, until then it was nice meeting her and you really enjoyed talking with her

if she gets all mad or asks a million questions, just say that you are not sure she is the person her profile says she is and until you meet her you can not trust her completely, anyways it was a great experience to meet her, you like how she seemed XYZ (personality trait) and it would be cool to do XYZ with her (activity)

also, try meet some girls in real life, it works out better face to face to begin with then trying to use dating sites apart from your ego being more on the line, just get used to it and it gets more regular

ur being way too nice with this girl