Ok guys, here's a challenge for you. I've been sarging online for a few months now with mixed success after coming out of a long relationship. All of a sudden, the girl who I was the one everyone in high school wanted turns up on pof... turns out her marriage failed and she's looking again.

She's a definite 10 and the kind of girl I'd skip past normally as she's probably getting loads of mail from jock types every day. I'd love to try and open her and the advantage I have is that we've been Facebook friends for a few months, so I can do it in a less obvious way. The problem is, I have absolutely no idea what to say to this girl. We rarely spoke at school (17 years ago) and although it was her who added me on Facebook, we've never spoken on there.

I know she's actively looking as she's on pof all the time, but I have no idea how to open her. The only thing we have in common is a desire to travel (she shares beach photos all the time on fb) but I feel like if I don't try now I'll miss out and some dick will end up banging her. So how do I start?

It hasn't been 17 years for me either bud, but I'd like to know how too

I would suggest trying to set up a casual meeting in real life after you've gained experience in PUA, as in, you know how to go look for her, but she doesn't know it's not casual

in any case, look out for logistical problems and be VERY careful not to come off bad

Use Facebook, since she's already added you.

Say "hi, thanks for the friend request. did you by chance go to xyz high school? I think I remember you, but I don't think we knew each other back then. I see you've done OK since high school, since you're in xyz profession. kudos! lol.. How do you find being in xyz line of work?"

This follows most of the basic rules of online gaming. You provoke a response, since she will have to answer "yes I went to xyz school". And by asking her what she does for a job, or has done since school, you are taking interest.