I became friends with this girl over the past summer and I started to like her (we're both 18 years old). This was before I got into sarging and I quickly messed everything up! I became very needy and clingy and had a major case of one-itis! After just a few weeks of this, she got annoyed and stopped talking to me completely. I kept trying for a while but eventually gave up! Well, it's been over 6 months now and she is the reason I found and got into the world of pick-up. I know a lot more now than I did then! She and I are friends on Facebook and she "likes" my status' on occasion. I know this doesn't mean anything but at least I'm pretty sure it means that she doesn't hate me. I would like to start talking to her again, I have no deep feelings for this girl anymore and I'm not looking to have anything deep with her, but I like to have girls in my life and she was a nice girl. The only way that I can communicate with her is through Facebook but I can't figure out how to start a conversation with her. Any suggestions for openers I can use and what I can lead into?

Like and comment on her statuses to begin with. If you start having semi-conversations on posts, be the first to stop talking to her. Keep this up for a few weeks and hope she messages you. If she doesn't, she's probably not interested in going back, but you can always message her for practice and take a shot in the dark. FB reconnecting with an old flame is a slow process, in general.

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