| First of all, your pictures need to be clean cut and interesting. And your profile needs to not be a bunch of bullshit. Either clean and to the point, with some powerful quotes, or fun and story telling, for example.
As far as opener. Honestly, sometimes I just say some shit like "hey where's the carrot?"
It's almost like a neg, sending a hot girl some bullshit line as if I don't give a shit. Surprisingly, they often respond to that.
Or I'll write 2-3 lines, commenting on their profile. Teasing them about something in their profile works a lot.
Try not to be cliche though, like, it has to be unique. I tried a few times saying "hey i meet your height requirement of at least 3 feet tall" but that never works. So i just assumed other people have tried it with them, or who knows.
Sometimes I try a "we have common interest and I'm interested technique" like "Wow, tall, brunette, and into photography, I'm in! or we couldn't NOT get along! haha..
That works decently, but honestly, that probably gets a response 1 in 4 times, or 1 in 3 times with it taking a bit longer for their response, where as saying something teasing them about their profile gets me a response probably 50 percent of the time.
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