i was out the other night with friends an k-closed this serious HB.

my game was on fire and i had her chasing me all night, however the next day i realized i forgot to get her number.

i sort of know one of her friends so i decided to add her on facebook. when she accepted a pm'ed her but she never replied is there any thing i can do her to try to hook up again or is it a lost cause?

i know the pm was seen because of the notification thing however im yet to see her online....

need help guys!!!

Tricky one. Personally, I don't like the facebook/online approach to this sort of thing. It juts looks like when you were real young and in school and would add a girl on myspace and ask her out over that instead of talking to her face. I know that's not what's happened here, but it still comes across as a bit lame in my opinion. (Not that it necessarily is, but just how it looks.)

I'm sure people will give you better advice than me on this sort of thing, but personally I'd cut your losses. If she was interested, she'd probably have responded by now. If you send another message it's getting into creeper territory.

It's like if she had given you her number; you ring her and she doesn't answer. You maybe ring her a second time a day or two later, still no answer, and no text or anything to say she was busy and missed your call. Do you ring a third/fourth time, or do you get the hint? Personally, on this one, if she's not replying to your message - and has seen it - then get the hint. She'll speak to you if she wants to, otherwise you'll just come across as needy and desperate trying to force her hand.

ye man i kind of thought that myself...

i know these girls are goin out next thursday so i think it could be better to do nothing until then and then bump into her again. theres a big event on where most people i know will be out and her house mate invited me along so i dont think it would come off as weird that i was there.

She's not into you. move on.