hey everyone, ok i thort id give u the backfround info first. Im an 18 year old good looking guy and this girl is a HB10. Met her at a party around 8 months ago, she gave me quite a few IOI's and i spoke to her for maybe 15minutes max, got her msn address and that was it for the party, ( it sucked cus i had a girlfriend at the time, who was at the party ahah) Anyway after the party we spoke on msn regularly for about a month, everything was cool. Then i went away on holiday, someone hacked my msn account, so i had to make a new one, and i lost most of my contacts. Anyway we didnt speak for the next like 6 or 7 months. Then recently, i found my old phone and in saved drafts was her msn addy, so ive added her back now. About a week ago, we spoke for the first time for like 2 minutes, but her msn keeps fucking up and disconnecting. And we havnt spoke since, cus ive been busy etc and dont wanna talk to her on msn SPAM cus she disconnects every 15 seconds lol!

Now the email, for some strange reason i remember its her birthday next week, on like the 12th or something, so i wanna email her saying, happy birthday, what the hells up with ur msn lol! But i dont really know the girl too well ya know, and sending the happy birthday email is slightly afc in my books, so i wanna big things up by droppin in a slight neg and a dhv or something in the email too, or anythin else u guys mite suggest? Help Would be appreciated! Thanks

I definitely would not send her a birthday card or message of any kind. Has she sent you a birthday message? Exactly. It doesn't sound like your relationship has progressed to that point yet. In fact not even close. For now I would keep it light and simple. For now the best thing to do is act like you aren't that interested in her. Let her know that you have other females in your life and and don't invest too much time in her. Unless she shows you definite interest(and being that she's an HB 10 that may take a while)I would just lay low for a while. Also, never mention her physical appearance. Compliment her on something other than her looks but only after she has shown more interest in you. In the meantime just joke around and tease her and don't be too nice otherwise she will think you want something from her. Ultimately you do ofcourse but for now be a bit of a mystery.

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true say man, yeah i agree 100% about not commenting on her looks etc, my game is pretty tight its just this is a real tricky situation because, her msn keeps fucking up bro n i dont know any other way to contact her, without it seeming afc you get me? N i really wanna close this girl man, but obviously she dont know that for shit man.

I dunno man its a tough one bro, if i do email her, im definatly gonna make the email slightly blunt, and really take the focus off her birthday, i just wanted to keep it short but effective....i dunno bro its a hard one this is, if i cud just # close through the email id have no problems from then on you see, its just theres no other way of contacting her other than i dont think.

Anyway bro, thanks i apprecitate the advice

hmm i wouldent send her a birthday message yet maybe if a friend knows her well you could and just say something like hey my friend says its your birthday today and folow with a neg and stuff

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hmm ok what do you want from this girl just to tell her happy birthday??? that's what it sounds like to me.
or do you want to meet up with this girl in the near future???

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doesnt matter, i emailed her, #closed, spoke on the phone for 20mins, and now she's desperate for me, i negged her 4 or 5 times and just told 1 or 2 dhv stories, and i also played the 5 questions game with her she loved it, anyway, were goin out next week. Thanks guys for the advice