I'm curios how you guys would respond to the following message because its a good example of what I get ALOT. I feel like it is a shit test but could be wrong. My gut says to say something like "ok good luck with your husband search" but this hasn't worked well in the past. (She is laughing at the beginning because I have a very over-the top cocky/funny profile.).



TheExperimenter:
Your profile tells me absolutely nothing that differentiates you from the other thousands of girls on here. You should work on that.

Girl:
hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah thank you

TheExperimenter:
It's not my intention to be a jerk but are you a tranny? I thought only men could have the V shape below their abs like that?

Girl:
Hahahahhaha nope sure as hell not its called taking care of your body try it some time

TheExperimenter:
I'll take your word for it for now but if I find out later there is a big dangly penis at the end of that V, you will be in big trouble mr. I'll come at you with a weed wacker.

Since your profile is weak, tell me about an adventure you have been on and how it made you feel. And it can't be about how you were the quarterback at the last high school football game.

Girl:
You need to get a life buddy please stop bugging me!!

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Way too much negging. Negging has it's place and online doesn't really seem to be one of those effective places. Tactfullness is also paramount.

I appreciate the comment but for girls with little-information profiles the only thing that I have found that gets any response at all is teasing them. And just like in the example above, as soon as I move into more of a "tell me about yourself" mode so I could possibly find something positive to like about them, they react like this. I really do believe it is just a shit test and not "too much negging". I feel like I just need to get the creative juices flowing to bypass the shit tests like this one. Does anyone else have example responses to get creative juices flowing?

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Avoid to use neg online since it lacks of body language and facial expression. Also there is a reason for those girls to use online dating, especially if they're hot. Chances are they're insecure about certain aspect of their lives, hence their self-esteems tend to be lower than usual. Neg usually backfires in that sense, the key to a successful neg is make it non-judgemental, like you just blurt it out without thinking. In you case, they can't tell whether you meant no offend or you're just a nosy jerk, that's the limit of online dating. You can qualify them in a fun way, there's no need to pick a fight.

Ex: You seem fun and easy to talk to. Here's a fun game to get to know each other. We take turns telling each other 3 fun facts about ourselves. Ladies first. GO!

The other thing is that you mentioned your profile is over the top cocky/funny yet your vibe in the conversation doesn't say so. You were putting on a frame that you're in higher status than her without anything to back that up. Hence, she doesn't take you seriously.

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Interesting. Thanks for the feedback.

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