met a girl about a week or two back and k closed that night, she added me on facebook the next day after one of her friends telling her my name (wasn't with her for long, roughly 10mins) now it has taken her to this time to message me on facebook with a 'errr' i mean what the point of that, is it even worth me writing anything back to that and if so what should i write? thanks for any help guys

I think it just indicates that things are currently awkward and she doesn't know what to say. Say something c/f about the kiss and try to segue into hanging out again.

Are you really unsure why she wrote "errr"?? Open your eyes. She kissed you and then added you on facebook. Does she need to send you a naked pic before you make another move? lol She clearly likes you. This shit is not that hard. Quit over thinking it. Just message her!! If you need me to hold your hand and write the message for you I can do that.

would love that man, yeah over thinking seems to be a sticking point with me need to work on that stuff. nevery really done any facebook game but thinking i'll try link it into tomorrow with it new years eve and all, any ideas man?

How about this you post here what you're going to write and I'll help you. The ball is in your court. The PU rules or guidelines only apply to the first 10 minuets. Once you get to comfort/rapport its all YOU. Yes you can use routines to help GUIDE you but heres a few things to consider.

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Do not be pua/gimmicky/calculated
Do not worry about her reactions let it flow(do not be too calculated, trying to impress or say the right thing)
Do not worry about losing her
Be Original, interesting different
Sense of humor super important
Lead(none of that shit: so what are you doing tomorrow)
Do not be overly cocky
Do not be outcome dependent(i hate saying this shit, cause is kind of a contradiction)
Be sexually aggressive, unapologetic
do not be accommodating...
punish her if she play games(by your no responding and freeze outs)

So what are you going to say?

don't have a clue but im thinking i should start off light because she did seem quite shy so probably a small neg and then try and build comfort in person tonight rather than building more of a onine relationship..

maby something like 'so how is my favorite stalker doing?' and then just let theonversation go on from there? thanks for your help man haha

Dude seriously? As stated above, she let you kiss her, she added you on FB and then she messaged you "errr". FYI, "Errr" = Why are you not talking to me?! Now that you have waited a few days, your message is going to be "How's my favorite stalker doing?"

You will be better served with something to bring back the "POSITIVE" feelings and emotions in her! Say something along the lines of "I walked past x (place where you met and kissed her) and it reminded me of that kiss and your cute little smiles."

What were you trying to accomplish when you didn't try to contact her after she added you on FB?


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