ok so a little background about this girl. She is what i would say a 7, and has some insecurity issues.. i have tried to open her 2x before. one with the apocalypse opener, which she didnt respond to and the second time with the "take down that picture" opener, which she called me out on. So i gave it one more shot and was some what successful with starting a conversation, hopefully built some rapport. Read it from the bottom up and Give me some feedback and let me know what you guys think. How can i progress this into a more seductive type of convo, or what should i do next to continue building rapport and gaming her more. i was thinking of sending her a merry xmas message and see if she reciprocates.

nk: lol your welcome

darkness: Thanks for your help sweetie. Goodluck with your pimping cuz they dont make em like me anymore

nk: lol.. a group

darkness: No you side tracked me! Lol actually there was one left, and then you can go back to keyboard pimping. When you go out lounging, do you prefer a group or just a date?

nk: lol high school ..so was that it for the survey questions?

darkness: Your going to be one of those teachers that the boys always have a crush on lol.

What grade do you want to teach?

nk: Yeah.

darkness: You want to be a teacher?

nk: English Literature.

darkness: I hear you. Im working 2 jobs so i can pay for these classes in order to start my masters. But you still need to have some fun in your life.

What are you studying?

nk: Thanks, I hear that a lot but i wouldn't know cuz i don't talk to girls on here.. and ur right, i don't go out much. I don't have time for it, I'm in the process of finishing my bachelors degree.

darkness: Lol well sorry for being different
After reading your profile i just thought that you would be sane enough for it. Believe it or not, most of these girls have issues!!

I used to dj @ migente back in 2010.

But sounds like you don't go out too much. What else do you like besides lounges?

nk: Well this is a site to meet people, i'm not just being cocky. No one's ever really asked me to help them with their homework before - I really haven't been to many lounges but of the few i've been to, i like MiGente on castle hill

darkness: Lmao i like the way you think. Do you think everytime a guy talks to you is trying to mack or is it just me? Lol

Unfortunate for me, my final project for my advertising class is to design a nightlife poster
Dont worry, you aren't the only person participating lol but if your gettin annoyed you can say so.

Whats your fav lounge?(and no im not asking you out, i work at night lol)

nk: Is this really for a class or are you just wanting to talk to me? ...I prefer a cocktail. Cosmo, sangria, martini

darkness: Cool, ur not picky.
When it comes to drinks, whats your preference? Beer, cocktail, or wine? And what type?

nk: I like both

darkness: Live band or dj?

nk: seated

darkness: Ok. Do you prefer a seated lounge or one with just tables?

nk: Lounge.

darkness: hey nina..im doing a survey for one of my classes, i need your opinion..when you go out, do you prefer a restaurant, lounge, bar or club?

I think you have become her "online buddy." That is the difficulty you face when you keep chatting with a girl back and forth like this online.

I can understand that you want to build some rapport with her but I think you should have made your intentions clear a lot sooner.

If you actually wanted to meet up with this girl, rather than just being an "online friend," I think you should have asked for her number a lot sooner. There is no need to hide your intentions.

For example, when she said, "Is this really for a class or are you just wanting to talk to me?" you could have said something like, "Oh, both, ofcourse! But slow down! I'll ask for your number in just a second..." In other words, get to the point very quickly when chatting to a girl online.

i completely understand where you are coming from and i did take it into consideration but wished i had used the line you said instead

keep in mind though..im not yet an online buddy because this is our first actual convo. she hasn't initiate convo on her own since
her buying temperature isn't high yet due to her insecurity. so if i come off to direct, her anti slut defense is going to kick in. any other critiques and/or pointers?

I would say one of the most important things to be clear about is what your ultimate goal is. In other words being very clear in your mind about what exactly you want from a woman, whether it be online or offline.

Once you are clear about your goal, then be very focused in your approach.

So for instance, if my online aim is to get a girlfriend, I would interact online with a woman differently than if say my aim was for something more casual.

You always want to be in control of how you direct the conversation. You want to 'steer' the conversation towards your main objective. Even if she starts trying to take the conversation in another direction, you have to remember to bring it back to what you want so you don't go off track.