this is the first time i have opened to a cute girl i dont know. my opener was "i see your on my friends list. but. your not a friend care to explain yourself :p"
SHe responded back with "i have a boyfriend???"

What would be my next move? what should i reply back with or should i move on

Move on.

Tip, What you are saying when you open a girl on facebook is the same as her seeing your face/body for the first time. So its worth the time and effort to check grammar, and make sure its easy to read. Otherwise you are setting a terrible first impression. Unless it is a girl who obviously doesn't give a flying fuck about the English language.

I also changed what you said, but used your same idea. I would of said something along the lines of ;
" Hey, i see you are in my friends list, but have never spoken to me. Are you trying to be my stalker? "

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I still don't have all the answers. I'm more interested in what I can do next than what I did last

I think this will sound stupid, but me and my wing just say: "Hi" or "Hello", they allways answer:

-Hi/hello

-Who are you/do we know each other

Then I just proceed saying playful/cocky things till we get in a relaxed or funny conversation, the hardest part is to say hello, but once she has answered it becomes as easy as it sounds

just a "hi"? quite booring

about the boyfriend girl: reply her "no way?! I have one too! Guess what, he just cheated on me, bastard! Is yours better?!"

haha. nothing to loose strategy

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"That doesnt answer my question silly "

OR something like that, neg her for thinking you were interested, but then ofcourse you have to go indirect, and under the radar....Though she has already made it pretty damn obvious she isn't interested. And if she really does have a boyfriend, what kind of guy are you to be hitting on her?

Give it a miss.

A girl once told me using smileys makes you appear insecure.
Might want to refrain from using them for that reason. (I didn't even try to game her).

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Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.

for that girl maybe, but no smiles text are read so boring with no happiness. my opinion.

remember: hot girls dont go BF-single-BF-single. they go BF-better BF- better BF. so be better I dont give a shit if she has BF which i dont know. he could hit on my girl too, right?! so i only respect if i know her BF personally.

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use Adam's line

" that's great... I'm just wondering how we never met? I don't really want to know anything about your dating life.... If I did I think I would of asked you if you were single and not why we haven't met lol."

just change that a bit to a less needy :

that's great... Anyway I was just wondering how come we never talked ?

and here you can go for romino's with a fix :

"btw I have one too! and he just cheated on me:P Is yours better?!"

Nice post. Keep posting such needed information. Thank's!

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