OK, So the background story is i met a HB8.5 on the weekend at a party who also has a boyfriend. I didn't really game her as it seemed unnecessary since she was mainly instigating conversation. I did although avoid being an AFC by keeping the conversation interesting and one of my mates entered with the 5 questions game.

Anyway she was giving me IOI's like asked for my full name etc. and the next day i added her on Facebook, she then accepted and started the conversation. I need advice on whether i played this properly and where i need to take it

HB 8.5
Hey! Sorry never really said bye felt a bit rude, but i was nice to meet you

ME
hey, yeah was a bit rude actually... but don't worry i forgive you

HB 8.5
i actual felt so bad... when kelly pulled me away i thought all the girls were in the car and i was holding her parents up

ME
haha or you just wanted to get out of their after your ordinary effort in the questions game, you looked like you'd be smart enough to get it!

HB 8.5
Not going to lie, I was tired.. And hey that game was harder then expected haha nah again I am sorry for the harshness of leaving!

ME
haha yeah you didn't want to play in the first place i noticed, seems like your a pretty safe person since you knew it was gonna end bad haha, just gotta back yourself sometimes!... i said you were forgiven

HB 8.5
Ahhh thanks! Yeah thought there had to be a point to the game, guess I am a pretty safe person then just gotta back yourself?

ME
haha yeah well there is meant to be a wager, just didn't place one cause we knew you wouldn't win! I mean be more confident, then you would of won, maybe...

HB 8.5
at least i won the second time round haah

Keep in mind the last message by her was the day after my message as mine was late at night, she may have thought i didn't want to continue convo so replied with a short message, i don't quit know how to read it. I'm considering using DHV story, which i will post if someone is willing to help me out. I really don't know where to take this due to the boyfriend issue...

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

I'd try and sound a little less excited and happy to be talking to her. I assume in person you weren't grinning from year to year and speaking with exclamation marks all the time so try to sound more chill and aloof in chat as well. Its basically as simple as using "!" and "haha" less often.

Also I think you kept that thread going too long, you basically said the same thing to each other 5x and it was all very safe and a little boring. You started off very well by telling her she was rude (elicits strong emotions in her as she herself admits in the next msg) and then it just sort of fizzled out. It doesn't really matter if you neg, make her laugh, turn it sexual or whatever. Just aim to get some emotional reaction out of her without breaking rapport and don't be afraid to completely change the subject if the current line of conversation is getting stale.