hey man

, im not sure what others do but if i think that theyr being slow to reply and are talking to other people i tend to try and turn it round on them, ill wait a while to reply to their posts and make it seem like im the busy one with no time to spare, doesnt always work but if shes interested then shell message back trying to get your attention back, this can be frustrating trying to do this but i find it can be quite affective. I think the rule is never put more than half the effort of the convo in should be at least 50/50. just my opinion though

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