So I tried a line I saw on here: hey I would remove that pciture from your profile.

Her: ..Umm, Whys that?

Me: lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you seemed like an interesting person and just wanted to say hi.

Her.10/2/2012 11:01:21 PM
because I thought I had something inappropriate or weird up. haha.


Sktlez10/2/2012 11:04:40 PM
So guitar huh? What do you like to play?

Her.10/2/2012 11:05:15 PM
barely. haha. I'm learning.


Sktlez10/2/2012 11:12:15 PM
Nice. so what was your name?

Her.10/2/2012 11:28:30 PM
Carolyn. yours?


Sktlez10/2/2012 11:40:52 PM
Brandon. Well it's nice to meet you =) So what else do you do for fun Carolyn?

Her.10/2/2012 11:43:39 PM
hahaha. lots of things!


Sktlez10/2/2012 11:54:30 PM
Well I got some stuff to do in the morning. So I'm gonna get going, but I think your really cute and I'd hopefully like to get to know you better?

Her.10/3/2012 12:01:42 AM
yeah, definitely


Sktlez10/3/2012 12:04:42 AM
what's your number and ill text you tomorrow.


So the above line from here, personally yes it will get you the first reply, however the 2nd part of it is a fail on 90% of women. This is the 2nd one that gave me a second reply.

So can I get some input on all of this, especially the conversation above.

p.s. she never sent me her number, but to be honest I dont care I wasnt gonna message back after that and I still haven't. I'm not really all that interested in hooking up with her. She's attractive, but thats nothing special.

What would you say back? what would you have done different ect?

A few things I noticed.

1. You were interviewing her. This is one of the things I read NOT to do. The typical how are you, whats your name, where do you work etc. Being a good PUA you have to stand out, think about how many other guys follow that exact routine.

2. Telling her she's cute. I would have used a neg there instead of the straightfoward cute. Possibly something like you look cute but I would change this or that.

This is my opinion hope it helps.

Yeah if it had been in person I would have negged her, but with it beon online and all I wanted to be straight forward.

Lets say I wanted to message her back, what would be the best way to approach it now that we're at this point?

Being that she hasn't replied to the message asking for her number she may have lost interest. This is a possibility not a fact. What I would do in this situation is send her a message that is inviting her out to a party or a bar and make it sound exciting. Make the message seem like you sent it to her and 20 others, this way it isn't directly towards her so there isn't a lot of pressure you know? I would say something like " This saturday were all meeting at (some bar) at 10pm!! It's going to be huge tonight so be ready to get down!
I used this on a girl who I did the same thing with and she hit me back excited to go out. I hope it helps!

Agreed on the interviewing her comment. Don't let this get you down though... just work on some different transitions on the next one....

You were discussing things you saw on her profile, which I have mixed feelings about because I think most guys are asking the same generic questions. If it is a common interest, that you can transition out of and still close... that's a different story I guess....

Since the convo went cold, I would freeze her out and keep the train rolling onto the next and the next.... re-visit her after the weekend with a different opener to get her attention. If it works great, if not .... next her.

Pointers:
- If possible get em in chat, easier to work stuff on there
- Don't interview, more stimulating conversations
- Cute works, I don't generally like to neg online as much as in person and your opener is kind of already starting off on that foot anyway
- You asked for # too early, the FTC doesn't work online. She doesn't care if you gotta leave, she has 20 other guys talking to her. You need more rapport and connection before she'll exchange #s
- Generally giving her your # works better