..after my opener or when a girl actually opens me.

Of 18 girls in the past 3 days on POF, I have 12 girls who OPENED ME and I havent responded to half of them because I have no clue what to say. I can keep conversation going and fun if the girls have anything interesting in their profile that I can relate to or tease them on, but when they just have bathroom shots or absolutely nothing interesting in the profile, how do I respond to a girl who messages saying "Hey " or "Hi How are you?"? I love that they try to get my attention but I'm not good working it from this angle when they take the lead. Would like to hear some ways to have fun with these girls.

I'm getting about a 50% reply rate when I use the openers I've learned on here. After the opener runs out, what things do you talk about to keep it flirty and feeling like you dont care either way how it goes, you're just out to have fun?

tell them this after the hey or hey whats up that they send you

"Its funny how all the girls on here say they wont respond to "Hey what's up" yet that's what message I'm expected to respond to"


it makes them defend their side and qualify them selves

haha man and that's so true isnt it!