I met this girl online in a game and she is a perfect 10.
I have been talking to her for several weeks.

At the beginning the convo's where full of flirting and sexual talking.
Then i found out that she does this with everybody..
Because i don't want to be just 'one of the guys' i changed my way of talking to her.
We have a lot more serious convo know where we get to know each other better.

I have been DHVing a lot, negging her for things. I know she sees me as a 'leader' because in the game i am (together with one other guy) the 'leader' of the group.

I know she likes to talk to me, because everytime i send her a message to come online, she comes online (i always send her a message 2/3 days in advance, because i am 'too busy' to come online right now.)

I live less than 20 minutes away from her, so i suggested a couple of times to meet up or ask her for her number.
She always says no..
Because of her past she has problems with trusting people and she gives that as a reason why she doesnt want to meet up..

Normally i would just drop it and let her go, but i want to improve my online game..
and she is incredibly hot

Can anyone tell me what i'm doing wrong?
If you need more details, i can post them..

Thanks in advance for helping me out!

Steth.

Ok you need to build more report with her don't be needy. tell her that you are having a hard time trusting her since she wont give you her number. tell her that she's hiding something and that you don't have time for mind games. then don't message her for a while and see what happens

Agreed. The biggest obstacle in online dating imo is the comfort factor. Remember that it is pretty scary for a woman to go and meet a stranger they have met online - you could be a serial killer for all she knows.

Try Ice's routine. Or you can try some jealousy - make out you are having lots of luck with other women on the site. Don't be a total asshole about it just infer it - do the take-away.

Also remember that she might not be a perfect 10, her pictures may be lies and she may in fact be a guy trying to learn some skills that he can use in his own game. You never know......