Hey, im looking to improve my skills in different situations and would appreciate any advice and tips.

As a side note, im not new to this and the chat was going very well.. anyway...

Met a girl online

chatted and flirted with her for a couple of days

asked for her number

she says that wants to get to know me more on chat thing first

chatted and flirted some more

a day or two later i asked whether she was comfortable giving her number yet and she says:

Not yet :her
23:36

ok :me
23:37

but how well do you want us to know each other? i mean some of the excitement is in what we dont know, dont you think? : me
23:41

Yh true - do u have Facebook - is that any good :her

so she added me on fb

but then she says

U don't seem to happy or I maybe wrong :her
23:54

no im ok , i respect that you need more time, i just want to make sure your not wasting my time
00:00 :me

I need more time because I don't know what I want :her
00:01

And due to something happening this year and Don't wanna get hurt I can't go through it again :her
00:03

i can understand that :me
00:04

Like I do wanna get to know u :her
00:04

But I don't wanna waste ur time either :her
00:04

Or hurt u u understand what I am sayig :her
00:05

lol you planning on hurting me? :me
00:06

I don't have it in me :her
00:08

its ok to feel like that :me
00:09

K :her
00:11

so you want to get to know me huh? :me
00:12

Yh :her
00:15

i wana get to know you too :me (ignore cheesyness lool)
00:16

Y is that :her
00:18

so we can go swimming in a deadly ocean :me (joke from before dw)
00:21

Lmao :her
00:24

nah you seem really nice and down to earth and you look pretty :me (ignore cheesyness again)
00:25

Umm how do know I am not chatting **** etc lol :her
00:26

intuition :me
00:26

:her

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and so thats the basic situation, i want to meet up with her and get to know her (i also asked to meeet up at same time as number and she basically said yes but not yet) but she needs to feel ore comfortable by the sound of it. she added me on fb so thats a good sign, and she seems to like me.

I dont really want to know what i should have said, but i do want to know how you think i should deal with the current situation. my aim is to meet up with her and take it from there

Cheers guys

Steven

sounds like you answered your own question bro

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the problem is that she needs to feel more comfortable first and im not sure what else i can do online. also i have a nagging feeling that it wont happen

Stop talking to her about her gaining your trust, this will only annoy her, just start making her laugh again, you need to let her decide when. By constantly asking her if she is ready to meet you will slow down the process and make you seem desperate, just play it cool

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