Hello,

I used some of the advice on one of the BF Destroyer technique posts...and this is girl is already attracted to me...and has been for about 4-5 years...but obviously..the bf is in the way....So i sendthis message to her (her bf is lacking dominance and is predictable), and this is what she says....

Is this good/ means anything? Or it's kind of hopeless here:


Me: Hmm... i don't think Its that this guy doesn't love you. He probably does. Its just that he's so comfortable with you now.. and feels so close to you, that you're more like a sister to him.. Like a special sister, but someone who he doesn't feel that he has to do all these things for anymore, because your relationship is so secure and so predictable.. there's no need for all that excitement, because he knows that nothing will change.. Some guys deal with true love that way.. I dunno, for me, I think that if you really love someone, you have to keep it fresh. But really, its not that he doesn't love you, its just that he loves you so much that he doesn't see the need, thus explaining the lack of dominance/ predictabiiity...

Her: You are very right, I think that he feels pretty comfortable with our relationship that he feels like he doesn’t have to go to the extent to make things exciting/ go out of his Comfort zone for me. While on the other hand, I’m always looking for new things to try and I don’t really tell him my feelings as much as I should. Eww I hope he sees me as more than a sister! I think that’s just the way he is in relationships/his personality. I would say our relationship is very boring compared to what it was in the beginning. I feel after about 6 months of being together, he lost some of his motivation for me. We have been together now for 10months. I would say he is more dominant during sex though (which I like) lol. You are pretty good at observing these things! I’m impressed. Well I have to go meet my friend at the gym. Talk to you later. I’m glad you understand my dilemma.

You are being her friend IMO and if you keep this up you will soon be her BFF. I don't know your relationship with this girl, but you seem to be acting like one of her Girlfriends advising her like this!

You only need to plant the seeds in her thoughts. "Why do you think he is being so "unattentive", it must be something!**". If you say "He is comfortable and that is why he ignores you" she will SUBCONSIOUSLY tell herself "Thats what DandyLion thinks!" instead of planting the seed and letting it grow in her mind, now she will think "I wonder why he is not being attentive"

** She will ask why you say that. Just say I dunno, but it must be something, Right?. Now you have just asked her a question that will make her imbed the thought deeper into her subconsious. Evil shit here!!!! Bad Karma!


Peace...

_________________
Crypto...
______________________________________
All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood