I grew up believing women are goddesses and I am just a mortal man born to worship them, needless to say dis mentality turned me into a guy most women would want to be around not as a lover but a friend, I was useful and good for their ego I said and did all the good things that made them feel good.

After years of getting the classic line "mavicozas I love u so much but as a friend, I don't wana lose u by dating you" I knew shit had to change and I took on a journey to being a man women wana date not befriend and here are the things I discovered:

1. Women don't know what they want so neva listen to what they say they want in a man.

2. Women don't need to be worshiped but rather treated like human beings and they need a man to be just what nature made him, a LEADER in a relationship.

3 Having a penis doesn't make u a MAN women want to date and hollywood has lied to u. That MAN is confident, has a sense of humour, in control of every situation, doesn't try to impress women by being NICE( fake character), doesn't tolerate childish bitchy brats (puts em in their place), doesn't buy their attention nor try too hard to get her attention. Etc the list is endless but look back to africa before civilisation what defined an attractive man then? Bravery, Dominance etc it will give u an idea.

4. Attraction is not a choice so as long as u press the right buttons a woman has no choice but to respond. Take a light bulb if u press the ON button its bound to light up but if u press the wrong buttons it will neva be on.

5. Looks play a 10% role in women loving you so let go of the mirror pretty boy and focus on ur inner game, looks will get interested in you, you will get a shot but without character they are as good as non existent, look around you how many ugly beasts do u see having women run after them while ur busy trimming ur hair and buying those million dolloar shoes?

6. You don't have to be rich to have the best women, am as poor as they come and if you look at the women I have had in my life you would call me a liar, this is an excuse most men use to disqualify themselves from getting hot women perfect 10s. They don't want to admit they are scared little gals who are intimidated by a hot woman they come up with an excuse to feel better "hot women date rich guys only" wussbags money has nothing to do with dating be A MAN. If u want her go get her no excuses.

7. Women love guys who stand from the crowd. Man who have certain qualities have women into them this could be sporting abilites, smartest geeks in class, best performing guys at work, dominant guys within a group, funniest ( not clowns ) guys, wealthiest, masculinity, etc so if u want to be attractive to women do wat everyone else is not doing eg while evryone treats the prom queen like she da shit be the guy who treats her like a bratty little sister, dat guy who says u just a gal from the other side of town come down and walk on earth with me.

8. Physical hygiene neva hurt anyone take care of urself and common sense should let u know what to do here. Work on your insecurites.

9. Learn to have fun with women there is a famous phrase called c$f in the dating community developed by one David Deangelo cocky and funny. I could take a year writing on this but in short learn to tease women in a way that displays confidence and humour and allows them to see themselves as imperfect human beings (sometimes they get too bigheaded wen they think they are perfect) the key here is to have more humour than arrogance takes time but I could give an example :

Gal: I like u dude u so much fun (during a conversation)
Guy: oh thanks I like me too*playful tone* (usually most guys would be tempted to throw a compliment and impress her)


10. Resist the urge to be a wussbag too early, men love women for her looks so that being said they fall inlove in seconds but women take time before they love a man because with them its about character and she learns that with time so resist the urge to write her love poems too soon lest u come across as just anada guy who loves her. PS telling a woman u lover her is neva gona get u far unless she already loves u so get her to see the MAN in u before u declare ur love for her.

I am tempted to go further but I will some other day till then have fun dating women u want not ones u settled for,

Mavicozas

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