So here is a picture of HBfeisty, super bitch shield she had on.

so here it goes, after I opened her with success.

got chatting and all of a sudden she mentions that she is not interested in talking to anyone, because of how she had been abused by other guys in the past.

So I showed a little sympathy by acknowledging how some guys can be real chumps when it comes to being vulnerable.

All of a sudden she replied with "WTF! You really are a chump"

I replied with "That's Rude! obviously your mother never taught you any manners actually Im a reformed chump, obviously the chumps who never spotted your particular behavior is mesmerized by your beauty and decided to substitute your rude behavior for beauty, I see beauty but I don't let myself get hypnotized by it.

at this point she flipped and went bitch mode and blocked me.

Here are my lessons learned from this,

Will not be wasting my time putting this girl on a pedestal. Getting rejected from her is an eye opening experience. Feels good to not give a shit after being rejected.

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

Heres another who got away, this woman is 37 years old.

Opened her with success, the interaction with her was really fun, turned conversation into sexual conversation started talking about her sex life and toys etc.

the conversation got too long about 3 hours of talking when it should have been 4-5 minutes but hey I had to keep MSGing her rather then using IMS. So I ended the conversation as it was getting flaky.

Have a better understanding on how online game works, similar principles can be applied to having conversations in field, such as setting frames, hoops, leading the conversation, push & pull theory, saw more shit test as this lady is 37 and Im 22 she kept testing me with age difference and maturity difference.

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

This girl dares to dream, as a first date she wants to fly to france and and have a romantic candle lit dinner on top of the eiffel tower.

Never fond of throwing negs towards my target of HB8+ but might start to do so, usually prefer to throw SOIs such as calling her "adorable for wanting to have a first date on the eiffel tower and how romantic it would be" then go into push & pull usually works, but for this I never got a response after SOIs

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

So my over all experience from this is people are so predictable, reading people's profiles is like reading the same ones over and over again. Commonalities includes their interest in various different music, similar interest such as hobbies, aspirations etc. For me personally it was all bullshit! Doesn't matter what you talk about, conversations is just an illusion, what matters is how you perceive it.

Example:
HB: Oh yeah I like listening to rock
ME: oh yeah cool, I like such and such = BULLSHIT! 80% of the population talks like this! trying to find similarities and common interest.

Another Example I tried
HB: Oh yeah I like listening to rock music
Me: When ever I listen to music, I find that particular songs give me different feelings like how I can get real Amped by listening to an Angry rock musician and it feels like I want to tear shit up = got good responses from women for answer like this

Another example I tried
ME: I noticed you liked scuba diving, that's cool. I used to scuba dive when I was 16, when ever I was underwater I would pretend to try and find some lost treasure at the bottom of the ocean floor. = that seemed to work too

So overall for me conversations is to illicit characteristics, its all about black and white weather you like chocolate over vanilla, its not about right or wrong its about having an open mind.

I learned more about leading a conversation and transitioning smoothly into different topics.

Example:
ME: I see your into comedy, my ex girl friend and her family like this particular comedian "Danny Boy" have you ever heard of him?
Her: yeah hes from scottland
ME: yeah thats the one, I can barely understand what he says cause he speaks to fast, but have you noticed how comedians always talks about racism and sex alot?
(transitioning conversation leading in to sexual topics)

Hoops, Frames, Shit Tests etc seems a lot easier to calibrate during real time chatting on MSG/IMS, now that I am aware of spotting hoops, frames and shit test in MSG/IMS I am now able calibrate this in field.

Anyway this is not an advice for newbies this is my own personal knowledge I have gained from my own experience of POF. Because one day I will look back on this and see how much I have improved

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen