I've been talking to this girl for around 7 months now. Met her in real life, got a hug. But she's not showing as much attention to me as she currently did. She says shes "busy" and is giving me around an hour or so replies on SPAM. We used to be really close, and still are from my view of things. But she isnt being as invested as she once was, which is clear. I do feel like shes getting more involved with other guys now. So I'm unsure how to deal with this situation correctly. She told me earlier today shes reading a book and needs to do some revision before she goes back to school next week. She's a 16 year old girl, and very shy and insecure. But i do have feelings for her which go beyond mates. And she knows this. Shes also shown that she is invested in me and her feelings for me are somewhat clear. But she isnt the most easiest girl to get an understanding on. She said to me last night we cant SPAM today or tomorrow as she needs to bash books. This was her exact message.
'[02:02:27] HB: so dont get angry when i dont reply -.-'
We used to SPAM alot, and we used to have really lengthy conversations.
She has not messaged me in an hour or so.. Should I demand her to reply is my question, or how do i go about this situation?

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Alex, Pimp in training.

Alex...........you call yourself "pimp in training"

I have one word for you: Oneitis


Maybe not what you want to hear but from my perspective it is constructive criticism.

Move on. Seriously. There are too many girls for you to waste 7 months on ONE. I don't care how much you like her, it's just not worth it. There will always be more girls. She probably has moved on herself. I went through a similar situation like this about 2 years ago with a girl for almost a year. If I would have known what I know now things would have been different but I didnt so I moved on and so should you.