I just saw a topic that has been opened right under mine, and has the same subject:p, but here's my specific situation; what would you do?
Talked to this chick on a site that doesn't have much new members that often, and she's one of those I thought I'll just ask out and cut all the messaging back and forth, but she comes very irregulary there.

here are the last two messages: (I already asked for the number in the message before that last one, and I wasnt pushy or anything, just asked in a funny, causal way)

Me: Her: What would you say to get that transition, and finally a meet up?


She's been online after that, I havent replied, she pretty likely saw that, and she started talking with others, which she hasn't done from back when she first came there.

Thanks!

She's being a pain.

Meeting women online shouldn't be this difficult. I don't know if this is something that you have done ( your message is pretty incomprehensible) or if she's just not really interested in meeting guys.

But, in the future, ask for the number much earlier, as was asking her to meet up. Get your “no's" out-of-the-way so you can focus on the women who are actually interested, rather than focusing all of your energy on trying to get a woman who's not interested in you to change her mind. other PUA's will say that there are still ways that you can gain her, but I think it's a waste of time personally. there are other women who were going to go for you.

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It's a non dating site, but everyone is there to meet someone, one way or another. Frankly, it's the only social site I know of in my country, except from facebook (which sux for me when it comes to adding people I dont know), and there aren't many to choose from. Most are either too young, or too far away.

One of this chick's replies in the beggining was: ok then we'll see eachother on (some date of the month), after I told her I like a certain band, that was to say that the band will be touring in our city soon.
Didn't have money for the ticket anyway and later asked her for facebook, she said she doesnt have, no matter how weird that might sound, and when she needs to meet with someone for a cup of coffe she uses phone. (left it in a sort of double meaning to understand whether those are the friends she's talking about or she's implying about meeting someone from the site)
So I said 'gimme your number, my phone will be back from repair soon' after I told her 'nah youre not weird for not having facebook, I dont have a phone'

And the messages I pasted were the messages that came after those I summarized above.

Anyway, after it was clear I haven't replied to her, but I replied to others she was online for few hours talking to others publicly. On that site I have pics. If there's a meet up arranged, till now, it was usually the girls who suggested it. This particular chick, after I havent replied, wrote a blog "I'm so lonely,I have nobody hahaha" -_- and in comments wrote to this guy that doesnt have pics and no one knows how he looks or who he is... He first wrote: "buy a guinea pig" she replied: "I'd rather have you... for myself"
I mean, haha comeone
(he's most known there for being asocial, and never having the guts to meet with anyone)
So they wrote mindless banter, and after, she said she likes riding a bike but is so freakin' bored, he said he cant ride a bike, she said she wishes to rush over to teach him to ride a bike

after few hours (:roll:) of public talking she ended the comments with: see you on the lecture, bring a helmet just in case.

Seriously, before she almost wrote nothing to anyone, and that night she even commented guy's pics with a flattering comment or two.

EASIEST TO ALWAYS SAY IS: forget it, "just say next"
This is to learn something! It always is!

This is how:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM1RChZk1EU[/youtube]

Love the video.
Wonder if you have read my second post...
..last two sentences, most importantly..

nope, on to the next one is the answer, she is a time waster, don't be needy,

get onto abundance, you're game should be in person, online is just supplement and less effective, takes way less confidence to hide behind a computer and talk to girls, then to do it in real life

go out, step outside your comfort zone, develop some courage until it becomes attractive, and you are more confident within yourself

a time waster is a time waster, all you can do is build some rapport, when things are going good, invite her out for a specific time and day, when she agrees get her number,

if she refuses to meet, gives you the number then keeps flaking, then you have no compliance from her and she is a waste of time (this is what compliance testing is for, and you just gave her a test, and she failed)

on to the next one