ME: How about xxxxx for some drinks and pool?

HB7:Oh, that's where I hang out and play pool, and have a couple of drinks!

ME: I just moved to xxxxxx 5 weeks ago, so I'm getting familiar with these places...is that where you would prefer to go?

HB7: where are u from? actually i would rather not take someone i dont know
where i hang lol just saying... if we make it past first date then we can
go anywhere


I'm thinking this girl gets around. I see no other reason why she wouldn't want to hang where she is most comfortable.

Anyone? Bueller?

Simple..She may get around...she may be a cool girl tho..

But..she doesnt know you....at all.. So she may not want to take you to the place she frequents, incase you turn out to be a chode....If that were to happen, she would have to find a new place to frequent lol


Is all of this happening in a small town by chance? Cuz I kinda see where she's coming from if that's the case...because word spreads QUICK in small towns.. And by the time that word reaches full circle, its one hell of a story that sometimes you can't even comprehend because its 90% bullshit assumptions he said/she said...So keep that in mind if you happened to have moved to a small town..Either way, the girl is just looking out for her personal social life it seems.............someone else may chime in with a different perspective on the situation, but from my POV, it seems like thats the case. She just doesn't know you well enough to include you into her circle

I left something out, or didn't say it clear...I do not live in her CITY. I live 25 miles away. I'd be travelling to her place to see her.

I took it as she doesn't want to be seen with me unless SHE approves of my appearance, and feels awesome about showing me off....lol


I appreciate the reply...

It's a first date. It has nothing to do with whether or not she gets around. She doesn't want you meeting her friends and being involved with other people in her life, because she doesn't know if she wants YOU in her life, because she hasn't met you.

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Eh, don't worry about it. I do exactly the same thing when I meet women for the first time, epecially from POF.

And actually I'd rather NOT go to a place where she's a regular....alot of times all her friends are there and you end up getting ignored while she socializes. Been there, done that.