So I've been training some online sarging with this HB9 I know.
I have been able to hold her attention pretty well, but I'm afraid of being to friendly messing up the whole point. It's a little harder to create attraction since she is my brother's friend. Any tips guys?



Thanks.

Talk to your brother (duh!)

Without knowing more, I can't tell you exactly, but ask for the girl's phone number. don't drag it online for too long. You want to be real-life friends, not online penpals.

I do know the girl in person, talk to my brother is a little hard because he acutaly isn't really friends with the girl.
I'm thinking of asking for her number but in a more indirect form, giving my and asking for a text, that way giving her a comfort zone, what you think?

Ty for the reply

I think indirect approach works best for any woman who is receiving a lot of attention.

As far as building up to a phone convo from text messaging, I don't like the idea. Set the tone of the relationship. Don't shake her hand. Don't text to build up comfort. Act like she's into you and she will be.

I'll text a girl to make sure that she saves my number in her phone, and then call 4-24 hours after receiving a response. I'll call her up, qualify her and then ask what she's up to this week. I'll let her know that I'm busy this week, but that I've been dying to go do x on day that she wasn't busy, and that she should come and keep me entertained. I always frame it in the context of "I want to do x, and you can keep me company". If she says no for whatever reason; I'll tell her "fine, I'll find someone else to entertain me!" in a tongue-in-cheek tone.

Good luck, man. let me know how it turns out.