You clearly have never spoken to a person in your life before. You are allowed to make a connection with a girl. Its called the comfort stage in Mystery, in Gambler its the tongue and cheek comfort "stage" in every fucking system there is a moment where you build this comfort.

Jesus bro are you really gonna say BS to me and then just say be alpha, pretend your the fucking coolest guy on earth?

You have to actually connect with your target somehow or you gonna get Buyers Remorse or strong LMR or just marked as a player who is never serious and has no real goals besides sex.

I have to apologize for my rudeness but you are applying false points for breaking rapport. You do that in the attraction phase, and then slowly apply them or a lot what ever your style in comfort. This does not mean you cant be serious and have a connection ever.

So yea sum it all up, you can have a conversation with a girl and agree with her and make it emotional, in fact I would go as far as saying try and do this every time but in a cute way that is not DLV to your image. Also have fun doing it, this is about having fun and getting girls, not becoming an asshole!

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no this is about being able to choose the girls you want, not be desperate and tell every girl a sap story about how you need phish to get a gf,

but whatever bro, i get my girls and you search for yours, goodluck

It could turn ugly if she finds out that you have a profile after you've been talking about things on her profile while giving off the impression that you do not have one.

To avoid this, and any other issues of incongruity, you should refrain from purposely incorporating information about her on POF into your game.

The best thing you can take from finding out that she has a POF profile is the fact that she is looking for romance. Turn off the computer and go give it to her.

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Fair point, getfamiliar. I don't intend on bringing up topics of interest that I have taken from her pof profile but if there is an opportunity to naturally take the conversation in that direction then I will.

Anyway, I appreciate everyone's feedback but we are probably over-analysing things right now. I will just aim to flirt, have a fun conversation and hopefully make a number close.

Now that is exactly right just have fun with it and bring up the interests if they come into speech... theres no need to over analyze this anymore, you know what to do. Glad we can help.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html