I always read the advice on this and it always confuses me that I seem to use none of the techniques suggested for online sarging yet I seem to be quite successful.

This was highlighted tonight! On here the general rule is to get the number ASAP and get straight off the site. This is something I rarely do quickly. I prefer to take my time and send quite a few messages even over a period of days before I request the number. Though I have a subtle emphasis on getting her to prove she could be good enough.

Another technique on here is to neg and be ultra cocky! I've never found this to work at all. Girls online are generally scared by the whole process of meeting a random stranger. Therefore I focus 99% on comfort building with funny stories. This process length is generally dictated by how apprehensive she is with online dating. Find some common ground and take your time.

I also like to stall a date... by this I mean that once the comfort is built I will often receive the "we should meet up sometime". I'll generally just reply with "yea that would be nice, I could kick your ass at mini golf". Then I won't set a date or time but instead I'll change the subject. A few days later I'll set up the date. I don't know why this works but it seems to cut out flaking. I've not been flakes on in a long time.

I'm mainly just rambling here but I guess my main point is don't be too aggressive online as it's all about comfort comfort comfort.

That is what works for me and on average I could arrange 2 dates a week with different girls.

Or maybe my profile is just good...fuck it I dont know lol but something's working!

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