Found this girl on POF the other night who's local, probably only a HB6 but I find her cute and she also happens to be a New Orleans Saints fan(not a common occurrence in PA). So I do the opener DV provided, the I would remove your picture, and she opens up to it and sounds all playful, then I bring up the Saints and she opens up about that, telling me how she wants to go to Louisiana so she can see a game and things are going real smooth. After about a dozen messages I ask her for her facebook and tells me she has one, playfully, but not giving me her name. So I give her mine, then she replies that she's having trouble with her phone, can't add me, but gives me her name so I look her up and send a request. We exchange a couple more POF messages, the last one she sends tells me the local bars she watches the games at and asks where I go. So I reply with the bars I go, and by this point it's like 1 in the morning and I gotta be up early so at the end of the message I tell her I'm ready to go to bed. No reply and she hasn't accepted my facebook request. I see her on last night, and just send her, "What's up, Megan?". I really don't think I lost her yet, probably just need to reopen. Don't think my FB profile would have scared her away as its mostly the same type of pictures I have on POF and she can see I'm a true Saints fan as I post some of their shit on my wall. Maybe see if she's on later and send the bet line. Like this isn't the girl of my dreams or anything, but I think she'd be cool as hell to watch football with on Sundays.

who dat

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reopen with a simple "who dat"? haha or is there a better option, like digging into my mini Sean Payton book of gaming tricks. Just hope I don't get my leg torn up by a late hit out of bounds, could be a game changer.

Isn't that the saints motto "Who Dat" It wasn't an opener. Just acknowledging your delima

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haha yeah it is. but what's a good idea to restart conversation? the bet with my friend line? I think I still got her where I want her, gotta find a way to move in for the kill.

I don't know what type of rapport you two have...If she's a big saints fan. I would talk about this weekends game.

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She's not the girl of your dreams, ok. Like most young girls she likely just wants to go out and have fun. Don't make it more than it is - think of it like hitting up a buddy to go do something impromptu or whatever; don't hit her up without a plan to get her out - the shits checkers, not chess.

good call..I just sent her a message on there being direct. Asked if she had plans sunday and if not how about grabbing a bit and watching the game. I can tell this girl isn't the one I wanna marry, would just be nice to possibly get BJs to celebrate Drew Brees touchdown passes..boring as hell watching games at the bar by myself or even with the boys![/i]

Don't ask, you TELL/make a statement, it exudes confidence which also invokes your frame..."Let's go grab something to eat Sat night" just for future reference.

If she declines throw in the bet with a friend line.. instead of winning the bet, you lost the bet. .if she ask tell her, My friend bet me that you were a flake and wasn't a true Saints Fan. Tell her she owes you a drink

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Not replying...fock her..

Got a date lined up with another cutie from pof about an hour away though this saturday night. Should b good