You may think, 'so what's the problem?'

Basically over 1 month, I've been talking to this solid 9 on okc. She would send a message once a week (already annoying). With each message, there would be another 'p.s.' message where she sends me a link about music or something.

I believe I asked her to meet up a total of 2 times, but she would not respond to those, but keep on talking like nothing happened, sending me music links, etc.

I disabled my profile for about 2 weeks. Came back on and decided to try her one last time. She responds right away. I suggest one more time that we meet up. She finally agrees with this caveat 'i hope it's something very casual'. This kinda confused me. Maybe she's used to douchebags taking her to expensive dinners?

My question is what's your frame going into a situation like this.

Game her indirect. She want's to go casual, so give her casual. If I were you, I'd meet her at some random coffee place, or just go for a walk in a park or something. Drop some funny stuff, like tell her to wear a big red hat, so you'll know who she is - and right when you see her, joke about it. "Where's the hat? I've been looking all around for this red hat for 30min, and you're not wearing it!? Bad girl!" - so you hit it off right off the bat. Have some stuff lined up, like the music she's been sending you, so there won't be any akward silence breaks.