Hey guys, so I number close a HB 8.5. We started to exchange text, she seems pretty cool and nice, but the thing is it always takes her a long time to return a message, usually couples hours.

I'm not sure if she's playing mind game or what, anyway so I suggest we should hang out sometimes, and she said "lol yeah we should ". Then I told her I'll be free on Monday, but It's been 2days and still haven't get a response yet.

Did I move too fast and what should I do now.
Thanks guys.

Need some help here guys, thanks.

First of all, relax. Don't get caught up in the "she's not responding right away" game, because that's exactly what it is; a game. If you mindfuck yourself over her taking some time to reply, then you're obviously not in a good place mentally or emotionally, and you need to work on that.

Second, did you simply say that you would be free on Monday, or did you ask her if she wanted to meet up on Monday and did you suggest an activity to do or a place to meet on Monday?

If all you did was mention that you were free on Monday, then that was a mistake. You are the man, you need to be the one who makes the plans. By telling her you were free on Monday, you basically put it in her hands to be the one who makes the plans, while you become submissive to her will.

Hi, thanks for the response.

I told her I'll be free and lets hang out on Monday, but I didn't suggest any activities. Maybe that's the reason?

It could be, but it depends on the rest of your interaction with her.

Right now she is the one controlling the interaction. You need to figure out a way to gain control, stop chasing her, keep her intrigued, and make her chase you.

I suggest you read a few books on text game. "The Txt Book," "B4 U TXT HER," and "The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game" are all good ones.

Thanks man. But how can I gain control if she doesn't even response to my message.

I was thinking to stop messaging her for a couple days and see what happens, any advice?

You answered your own question.

Yep.

If she isn't going to respond, then there really isn't much you can do. Sending her more messages isn't going to make her respond, it's only going to make you seem needy and push her away.

You need to just let it go and move on. You're worrying about a girl you have never even met. This girl is nothing more than a few lines of text. Everything else is in your head.

Gocha, Thanks guys!!