Hey, so lately I've been having this thing for older women. I want to get with a cougar but am not really sure how. I've messaged a few on POF and sometimes I will get a response. It usually mentions how I am too young for them. Any suggestions how I can get around this age difference and get them attracted to me? Any advice in general for dealing with cougars online would help too! Thanks.

As a follow up the message that I usually send out is "Hello! I saw your profile and wanted to say hi! You seem like a really fun person. You are also very pretty "

Then they usually either say something about the age difference or I have also been getting a lot of responses like "Awww..thanks...that is nice of you...have a nice rest of the weekend...."

Not sure how to transition off of that...

There is no transition off that. They are ending the interaction.

You need a mature profile. set up a search for all women in your area over the age of 30 at least. 35 is better as most men search for young women no matter how old they are. This means they aren't bombarded by men so they spend more time looking at who viewed their profile. Click on all the womens profiles to leave a mark that you have viewed them, don't bother writing a message as they will notice you have viewed them and they will look at your profile.

You need to think of your target audience when you write a profile so write it targeted at older women. have a go and then comment here when you are done and I will take a look and give more advice.

In the meantime use role reversal. In other words when you get a message you need to switch the frame. soemthing like, "Oh wow a suga momma my lucky day. Actually I think I'm a bit too young for you I wouldn't want to make you feel like a pedophile or anything...'

Its cocky, its funny and you are getting her to qualify herself to you instead of you trying to qualify yourself to her putting you in control. Women love a man who can take charge. Men lead women follow.

again great advice by myt88. Really nice! I would add a bit more info and that is, before they talk about age difference, you should talk about it first, u cn say sumthng like, "you are too old for me, i am nt sure whether u cn handle a young guy like me or not" dont let them answer and change the thread. Kool dis would stop them from bringing this topic up again. And then just game them according to the phase of the pick up that u were in.
As a side note i would like to mention that if ur game is ti8, u dnt get objection of age.
And how do u reply if they ask you about age difrnce? Sumtimes they really wana know abt what u think. In dat case i would make a weird face, then smile and will continue with whatsoever i was talking abt.d how do u reply if they ask you about age difrnce? Sumtimes they really wana know abt what u think. In dat case i would make a weird face, then smile and will continue with whatsoever i was talking abt.