How do guys here deal with what you'd call 'incongruence' in female profiles often seen on standard dating sites and not on adult dating ones. I mean ones where a chick has got some photos (be it just one, or maybe several) showing impressive cleavage, or she may be wearing a bikini and/or revealing attire. The bitch might possibly mention either being bombarded with messages in her profile, says to only contact her once and not to keep messaging repeatedly, plus not to contact her if you're a player and/or are only after a friend with benefits, yet she's showing what nice tits and in most cases, what a nice figure she also has.

Like do you tease her for being an attention whore and ask if she's actually up for genuinely meeting in person, or is only on the site to get validation and/or to get more Facebook friends, or do you just totally and intentionally ignore it, as you know what type of messages she'd be mostly getting. Like what type of witty subject line/s would you use for these bitches. This is something most AFC guys badly and usually fuck up, as use of humorously witty teasing and watered down negs (as opposed to full on ones) does require advanced online skills.

I saw the comment below on another forum, about this.
- 'Why is it that on PoF, or anywhere for that matter, do some women show on their profile, slutty pictures and maybe one showing nice cleavage, then always have at the bottom 'Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter'. They're advertising sex, but when you bite, it's ha ha got ya, 'relationship'.

- Okay guys I've seen a lot of these girls profiles around, so I know exactly what you mean by it and I've messaged a whole range of different women online, so I figure I can speak with a bit of authority on this matter. Never message a girl with anything relating to sex. Even if a girl has a picture of her bare ass and has sex listed in her interests, it just ain't time bro! Take a chill pill. Girls get freaked out when a guy propositions her for sex online. They don't like it, it's a massive turn off and think about it, you're lowering yourself for doing it. Why would you want sex with someone just from seeing a tit pic? Yeah I know the answer, but you got to think about it, as if you were a woman. You need to build that connection first, before you even think about sex.

Listen right, you're a guy, she already knows you want to fuck her, so why tell her? Even if this girl did just want a quick fuck and in all my time trying to find such a girl, I've only ever found one that actually just met up to fuck and nothing else, then she's going to want to go on a date first anyway. Focus on getting that date and nothing else. You need to impress her with your messages, DHV and all the rest. cocky & funny, whatever. All the old tricks. When you get her on the date and by date I mean 'let's grab a drink on Thursday', you have to do all the same again! Don't talk about sex! I met up with a woman advertising that she wanted sex, that she wanted to release her slutty inner child. Guess what, she bored me with when I met her, about her fucking job. I didn't give a fuck about her job. I wanted this girl to just come out and say some shit about fucking, but it never came and I was so nervous about the whole thing, I blew it before we ever got there.

I also met a girl who said shit about charity in her profile and our chats were about everything, but sex and sexuality. I took her out for a drink, we chatted about a whole range of stuff for 3 hours never once mentioning sex. You think this wasn't going to lead up to sex? Then you're a fool. On the first date, I had her on my car, fingers inside her, all initiated by her and not one mention of sex, came out of my mouth. This girl was wild too, I'd never met a girl so into sex that it scared me. If she was a little bit hotter and less toothy, I'd have kept her around for more than 3 dates. Sex and attraction is natural, you don't need to talk about it to get it. See any mentions of sex, of suggestive shots as the shit test that they are and don't take the bait, as it'll only mean more ladies for me.

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P.S dunno how to reply

Good question.

OK, here's the low down:
Dating sites are public ; they normally require you to clearly show your face on your profile pic... Given this fact, do you seriously think any girl is ever going to write she's looking for casual sex and/or one night stands?
It's one thing to display your sexuality (and it's commonly accepted moreover), but it's an entirely different matter to put it in words.

The only type of girl who would do such a thing would be an extremely liberated one who doesn't give a fuck what her neighbours/friends/colleagues may think.
If a girl writes she doesn't have sex on the first date/she's looking for a serious relationship, you can safely ignore it...

Given that she perceives your value as higher than hers, and that you build up enough attraction, virtually any girl will have sex on the first date/a one night stand with you... It's that simple.

About negging:
Negging doesn't work terribly well online as the girl cannot tell from your body language/facial expression if you are being a total bastard or if you are teasing her... Go easy on the negging...

How do you contact her? There are lots of good online openers on this site... However, they tend to be one liners... try to make your initial message a bit longer and personal.
Each sentence should draw her in and build towards the next, which will draw her in even more.

Online openers are great at catching a girl's attention, but they often lack substance after that.
Try: "Hey! Did we go to different schools together?" as a message title which she might feel compelled to open, and then compose a message with substance (no banalities, no fluff, you've got to keep drawing her in).

'Hope this helps,

Jackson