TheDonDraper: You're very welcome

Faust: You're right, after learning more about PUA, I'm convinced that these guys have personality disorders. She knew them in HS, one still lives in San Diego and one lives somewhere here in Hawaii. She's on deployment so unfortunately there's no way to have one of her tough-guy friends take care of them, lol. The men she works with are very upset over it and would love to, though. Thanks for commenting that no one should ever try to change anyone else's personality. As a woman I think that women especially are really bad about trying to change (or save) their men, instead of learning to be happy with what they have. But then again I'm a happy Domestic Goddess, not a Femi-Nazi.

Damn, I'd love a good femi-nazi on my arm.

Those guys have their own issues to deal with first that's all.

Matt: very true, thank you! Please read the definition of "Femi-Nazi," it might change your mind haha.

Btw, I don't think many men are familiar with it, so I'm writing a post in a few days under "Relationships" about the "Young Domestic Goddess" Movement among young college-educated women. Maybe a few of you will check it out?

As a Domestic Goddess, I made the choice 3 years ago when we married (I'm 24 now) to always put my husband first (he's THE MAN in our home) and devote myself to keeping him happy. I love it, he loves it, win-win!

From a British Army NCO working in the exact same field she does. Take it on the chin? We live a bit of a different life to the norm. You will get weirdo ex's what ever walk of life you choose. Tell them to do one and just concentrate on replying to the people that matter out there.

F3nrir: You're absolutely right. Actually she didn't get nearly as upset about it as I did, and she brushed it off very quickly. However I, as her over-protective big-sister, was extremely pissed off and took it more seriously than I should have!

Thank you so much for your service, and take care of yourself. If you are deployed, I pray you'll make it home safely

I don't know if this has been mentioned, but I'd say that leilanissecret is actually the sister and there is no brother.

Honesty is the best policy, leilani

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That has already been established.

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Really? Sorry to disappoint, guys- but I live in Hawaii, where we grew up, with my husband, and R (lil sis) is away on deployment, but she'll be posted Stateside when she gets back. She's had a bad time of it with Bf's lately and I was just trying to help her out. She'll probably beat my ass if she finds out that I wrote about her lol!