Just started talking to a girl on OKCUPID last night.

She started talking to me.

HB: hugs and sleep are the best things to be awesome at.

ME:Nice to meet a girl on here thats not too shy, most of them just favorite me and wait for a message. I dig your profile though, you seem like you could be a ton of fun... Or maybe just trouble, I haven't decided yet

HB:haha
only the best of both.

ME:both sounds good, you better not disappoint me :p

HB:I never disappoint.

Obviously this convo is going good, she messaged me first. I got her to qualfy herself. My problem is when something goes good my brain stats saying "don't fuck this up" and it feels like it can only go downhill.

I used to be like that. Always looking at the glass half-empty.

Stop worrying, start reading.

Don't overthink and you'll ruin it.

Just be in the moment while talking to people. Past or future isn't an issue.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I like to always keep in mind that it's MY frame. You know? It's your world, and you're letting her in it. You're testing to see if she makes the cut. Now have some fun, man.

good start. i'd probably go with something like:


yeah, yeah, yeah, they ALWAYS say that...right before they disappoint me So how adventurous are you?

and go from there