So I met this gorgeous HB9 yesterday while clubbing and didn't have a phone so I asked for her facebook instead. I added her and this morning she sent me a message:

HB9: Waw that's was fast hehe hope you have fun in swizerland! Xoxo

I'm new to this thing but I'm assuming since she said "that was fast" I shouldn't answer right away? Also, I have no idea what to reply. I'm not travelling to switzerland until one week from now. Is it a good idea to ask her out for coffee in my first reply, or slowly build up?

She seemed pretty into me - by bad luck I was pretty damn drunk when I saw her (I had seen her in the street a few times randomly before and our eyes met) but never opened her. I knew I didn't have many opportunities like these so I went for it.

I'm pretty sure this girl is dating material. She seemed smart and as I said before, she's gorgeous. What should I do? Any advice welcome!

Cheers.

don't slow down momentum. if the girl is fast replying and the energy is good keep up with her..

what you got to do is to just get her number... then maybe cal her and ask her out. no need for long talks and stuff... the objective is to date her out

good luck

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Good advice - I would definitely have gotten her number yesterday instead of facebook, but the problem is I don't actually HAVE a UK number. I know this is a definite handicap but I can't do much about it at the moment since I'm going back to switzerland quite soon and it's not worth getting a contract now.

I'm not sure about the energy. She's been pretty neutral with the replies so far, and hasn't acknowledged my suggestion that we should do something together. What do you think?

her: Waw that's was fast hehe hope you have fun in swizerland! Xoxo

me: heh thanks but I still have about a week left in the UK! Right, I'm going to jog this hangover off we should meet up some time! xx

her: Oh I thought you were leaving today at 7am hehe oopsy. I used to jog to *place* have fun with that xoxo

me: No, I meant that i'm leaving on the 7th of June. Just came back from my run, hangover eliminated! I went by *place* along the coast - it's nIce to run by the sea. You run much? xx

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Again, I don't have much experience with this and I'm definitely feeling more intimidated than I usually am because of how beautiful she is. Thanks for your time & advice

Take a deep breath and handle this logically. You want to be with this woman for a long, long time. Getting intimidated by how she looks won't help your case.

Remain calm. Don't be too thumb-happy on the messaging. Take your time, tell her you have plans too and there are other things going on in your life. Casually suggest meeting up, but don't act like if it will affect you if she says 'No'. Calibrate accordingly. Too many people falter on calibration of comfort level when it comes to these things.

Suggest an open environment for a meeting say a lunch or coffee. Be geniune in your interest and in person. She'll be in your life in no time.

Do your best.

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Next! You told her ''let's meet up sometime'' and she didn't respond to that but she did respond to the other part of the message.