So I've been back to trying out online dating the past 2 days and I managed my first number close. I noticed a few things
1 - Girls don't tend to type long messages, especially the attractive ones, so I noticed I had to work fast.
2 - The lack of depth in their responses doesn't mean a lack of interest.
Here's how my first number close with an HB8 went (bullshitting the entire time). I don't really use a standard opener, but I pick and choose things in their profile to poke fun at. Here's how our convo went:
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Shiny and amazing for the rest of your life? What's your secret? I shine with a bright pink aura myself, but I don't know how long it will last - people get the wrong idea.
So, I'll agree about the eyes, but I worry about 2 things:
1) I'm almost a foot taller than you, so when we're hanging out you need to punch me now and again so I don't accidentally step on you
2) Nachos all day and a cook? Damn, you may not gain a single pound, but if I eat like that I'll be sumo wrestling with Shamu in no time! You'll have to watch over me there.
So, let's make friends. Hit me back
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haha i see that we're both scorpios. could end up being trouble! tall is better than being a midget so no worries. you live in boston? hopefully you do like nachos though.
Here response seemed playful enough and showed some IoIs. I decided to bite
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So let's see. Dating another Scorpio is indeed a taboo... But taboo means excitement, excitement means a thrill, and well, thrill means adventure! Maybe... Only one way to find out!
I won't lie. I've had dreams of being a midget for one day. Since heat rises, it does get a little bit stuffy up here - I want to feel the breeze every once in a while.
Nachos are good - especially when dipped in spicy hot queso... mmm. So, besides downing nachos, any spicy plans for the summer?
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hmm not as of yet. how about you?
her response was short-winded, so I decided to do the same and remain playful with it.
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Traveling a bit. And maybe trying to take over the world. No plans yet? You can help. I call dibs on Brain
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Haha dibs granted!
After this, I decided to go in for the kill:
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Ok Pinky. Its time we start planning. We can't do email on this site since, well, who knows who's watching! Let's continue this conversation elsewhere. Phone, perhaps?
And lastly, her response -
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Hahah well my number is --- --- ----.
Score! This made me notice a few things. I was completely playful, confident, worked fast, and the number request transitioned smoothly from our little improv. I got a nickname for her right off the bat, and I didn't say one thing about her looks. It seems getting a girl to laugh is the best way to get her number online as well.
However, I'm wondering if I could've done a bit better. I feel my second message may have been a bit heavy when justifying why we should try out dating as two Scorpios. As I said, I'm newly into this again. Thoughts?