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| lewse123 | PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2011 10:15 am | |
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Posts: 8 | | talking to a girl on fb and getting short responses from the get-go, how to keep her talking, help please?
[You]
Report · 20:07
hey i think ive seen you around school, whats up?
Report · 20:08
hey nothing much
[You]
Report · 20:09
ahh your a bit boring :L
Report · 20:09
ha yea wbu
[You]
Report · 20:11
unfortunately the same as you, fml lol
Report · 20:12
ohh yea
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| eripmav | PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2011 11:26 am | |
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Posts: 104 | | Revert to canned material to get her talking.
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| lewse123 | PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2011 11:51 am | |
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Posts: 8 | | i eventually ended up doing that, but the thing is, when im in a situation like that i feel as though she doesnt want to talk to me so i kinda lose motivation, like i feel as though theres no point talking to her so i sometimes just dont bother saying something else. is this normal and does she not want to talk to me ?
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| eripmav | PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2011 12:14 pm | |
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Posts: 104 | | The conversation you were having was boring and she had little reason to invest time in it. Look at the words that have been used in this conversation: nothing, boring, unfortunate. It doesn't set up a good frame.
The canned material is designed to elicit responses and stimulate a conversation. She may then give you something in her response which will allow your to move back to more natural material.
Understand how canned material works, use it to implement your own routines based on your own experiences and it will come off as more natural.
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