Hi
I have joined a dating site and this is the message that I send to the ones that I "like".
The system tells us if we are liked by someone so they know that I like them.

Here is the message that I have been sending but I get no response back.

Hi ????

I thought I would get in touch. You seem to be a kind and considerate sort of person.

I love your profile, especially the fact that you feel that you have the best job in the world. That is good because it enables you to spend your time doing something that you love. So much so that I believe it probably never feels like "work".

According to the computer we are a great match for each other. Although how much we can trust a computer to decide something as intimate and as human as a personal match we will have to wait and see.

From my profile you can see that I say a lot, then again I do have a lot of interests which is good because it means that I find it very easy to converse with people.

The best part about conversation is the listening and learning about the other person. To hear what they have to say, their feelings, thoughts and opinions. Of course some of these will be shared and agreeable whilst some of them not as much. That is the excitement of finding out in person.

I have been told that I can write, I have even been told to become a writer. One day I will and then I can share my words with the world at large. Until then though, I write to you on a one to one basis.

Whilst I can write, what I really enjoy is personal face to face contact. So our correspondence will be short enough to get to know each other before we decide to take that fearful plunge of meeting up.

Like jumping in an open air swimming pool, perhaps we will realize that we really had nothing to be afraid of and wish we had done it sooner.

All the best.



So what you guys think?


I also send a follow up message when I see that my message has been read.

That goes something like this:


Hi ?????

I saw that you read my message .

I would love to find out more about you so it would be great to hear from you.

I have always thought of visiting Canada again, you all love the outdoors so much. That is great because its a very enjoyable way to stay fit. much more preferable to running on the treadmill in the gym. my trip was to the east coast and was not long enough.

Are you busy in the run up to the long weekend and the wedding to come, like many of us? Are you staying in London or will you escape like a lot of the other Londoners?

In the meantime, have a great week, soon Easter will be here and then in the blink of an eye it will be Christmas again..... but before that we will have the glorious summer of 2011.

Hope to talk you soon.

Strength lies in numbers. Don't send these to one or two girls. If you're a hot girl on a dating site you are going to get bombed with messages. Send them out to every girl that remotely attracts you, making minor modifications as you go along. Look at other techniques and experiment.

As well as that sending messages after no response comes across as needy and even creepy.

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thanks for that mate.

I have been sending this to several women but not one has replied back.

Perhaps I should load up my profile and the opinion of others.

I have only sent one reply message after the initial read. no more.

I also don't want to mass email 100s of women because if my technique does not work then I am just killing potential future successes.