So, I have been going to class with this HB9 for about 2 years now, shes very cute, and she is very quiet in general. What I hear from her friends is she was a dork in high school, joined a sorority (became president for a while), but is now out of it and not under their rule anymore...Anyway, she always avoids eye contact with me and she has been commenting on my twitter, 4square, and instagrams, ect lately. She makes sure to slip out of class before I can say hello...

I finally got her to come to one of my parties a few weeks ago, and she seemed to have a good time...She was hanging around and I could not bring myself to pull the trigger, wanted to take her to my bedroom, but no idea if she would be DTF and how she would have reacted to asking her to come.

Anyway, apparently she let some gay slurs fly around the pool table, I didn't notice (or care), but then a week or so ago she got on FB out of the blue and apologized to me for saying gay slurs around me....??? I responded by asking her why she thought I would care and said I was usually the one throwing them out.

Was this her way of telling me to make a move?

Tonight he FB's be out of the blue with this:
She signed off and I txt'd her, went no where

Now, what does this look like, I am oblivious to IOI's and girls being playful, what would you call this?

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Well she messaged you first, I would have been a little more playful on FB chat and use some emoticons here and there so it lets them know when your joking.

From reading your responses, if I were her that would scream "not interested" since your responses are short and non-engaging. I know I hate it when I get that from girls and I never talk to them again because they are not interested if they do that.

Also "maybe I am dead inside"....that could also scare her off thinking you have deeper issues she's not comfortable handling. We all have issues but try to bury them when getting to know a girl, it's ok to bring it out if a relationship gets more serious and she's already into you.

But you did text her, so instead of her thinking your not interested and moving on you hooked her back in. However you said it went no where, like how so? Maybe you can provide more details? Anyway the ball is back in her court since you took initiative and texted her after she messaged you ect. At most send another text in a few days or FB chat if she just stopped responding but never more.

Nah the ball's not back in her court, if you said she was a nerd before, she's like a little lamb in the field and you're the big bad wolf stalking your prey. Don't wait for her.

Just take the initiative, but rather than seeing if she's dtf at a party, just ask her out one on one.

So, I asked her out, and she completely ignored me, not sure if in shock, or what, but she turned away and didnt say a word to me for a good week. I didn't push it because we still have a semi-professional relationship, but the other day, she does something crazy, out of the blue...I need yalls help again...and this is not oneitis, just an ongoing thing...

So, the other day on twitter, she used a service that replicates your twitter profile called tweet forger, anyway, she basically replicated my account and asked her out as if she was me....big IOI telling me to make a move, right? So, I used the same service and acted like I was her, and said sure, and lets do dinner...she saw it, and again, silent SPAM....two days go by, and she sits next to me in class. (she usually sits on the other side of the room), so I change my body language up to be more alpha, and open to her...then instead of asking me in person, she gets on FB chat, sitting right next to me before class begins, and asks if I want a hot cheeto (she had a bag on the desk), I declined. After a few min of chatting, not looking at me, she makes a comment about her colored contacts being blurry and not being able to see the front of the room....I flag her attention, and point to my eyes, with my index and middle finger and we make eye contact briefly. I restrained from asking why she was wearing colored contacts, (her natural blue eyes were hot anyway), and she started making really abrupt yes, no, hmm, lol answers to whatever I was saying...

Am I reading this wrong? Either she is just really shy and my next move is to tell her we are going out that night, no ifs ands or buts about it, or she is just messing with me...

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