ok so I was chatting it up with an hb 9.5 right now (its 1:57 am). I met her at a party last weekend where I was DJing and she went up with me to take a picture (didnt really talk to her at all cause I was busy but she added me on facebook about 2 days later)... we were just chatting right now about the randomest shit then I told her I don't think we're going to get along after she said something about herself.. but i said it jokingly . and i told her i don't think we'll be able to talk anymore.

then she just said me either . and we didnt respond back to each other and she signed off 10 mins later.. but it wasn't about anything serious at all

but I don't think I did it right haha..

I'm ASSUMING that what I did might make her think "why is this guy acting like im not special".. shes a girl who gets like 40 'likes' on every picture she has on her facebook, so she is HOT.. but i'm not sure if what I did is right or what I should do next..

how do I recover / how should I open next time?

thanks

Yeah, you clearly didn't do it right. Over text chat, people can't feel your sarcasm. If you are going to use something like the we-can't-be-friends line over text always articulate in a way so it is OBVIOUS it is a joke. For example: "you like that band? we're never going to get along " or "omg, you don't eat tomatoes. we obviously can't be friends." And quickly keep chatting. Don't re-state that you can't be friends a second time and then don't respond...It seems like she got defensive and shut down.

That said, you obviously want some advice. Here's what I would recommend. I would probably just re-initiate chat like nothing every happened. Start with something fun and relevant. Not just "hey...what's happening...*yawn*" Something more like "hey, been meaning to ask you, did you see X at the Y event? what did you think of that guy?" And if she says something like "i thought we couldn't be friends" then you just respond "oh I was totally joking, then I got a weird phone call (or fell asleep at my keyboard), sorry about that...anyways..."

Whatever you do, don't explain yourself. Don't apologize in any meaningful way. Don't show regrets. If it comes up, make a quick comment and deflect into a fun conversation.

well I know she thinks i'm joking.. 99%.. because we were talking about such stupid shit ..

she said she was from mars and I told her I don't like girls from mars and that we can't talk then it went from there.. so yea its really silly and stupid. haha

but thanks!! ill do that