I met this girl about a year ago, at first she took a great interest in me. I got excited and tried making things happen with this girl.
So soon enough I went on this lunch "date" (it was not a date, but it should have been).
We mostly talk through msn, but it was getting complicated, she apparently liked this who moved away. Shes also into her self (more then she should be), I remember asking her to hang out after our lunch "date" and she responded "stop trying to date me", I wasnt sure if she was joking or if she was really into her self thinking every guy who talks to her wants her. (She did however continue talking to me after I was ignoring her)

Either way I was turned off to say the least. And saw no potential so I pretty much cut her out.

Now after all this time she sent me a message, dont generally like talking over computers, but I lost her number, I would like to ask her out, or just to see her again and work from there. How and what should I do to get her to see me again?

I was thinking just leaving her a message being very direct saying lets get some coffee and catch up Friday but what if she responds with Im busy, or worse?

-Thanks

Well...

I would say if you dont like talking over MSN dont. And bring her down a notch in the process. MSN her the following "Hey whats your number i hate talking over IM (you could insert neg here such as "your hard to understand over internet or something like that)

Now when you call or MSN dont ask "Hey you want to go get luncH?" Cause youll sound like every other AFC. Instead i would recommend " I usually dont offer this to girls i dont know very well but this thursday i happen to be open and im giving you the once in a lifetime opportunity to go to lunch with me"

That might be a little over the top or silly but understand the main point of PUA lifestyle, You are amazing She needs to earn your love because you are a demi god.

If you take one thing from all of this take "Confidence" or Cocky and Funny

Like mystery said i would rather be a jerk than an AFC be bold You are the man