how do you respond to this:

"Haha.that's cute i just only give my number to close friends and family..never been on a "blind date.."

I have a lot of questions, like what was your first message? How far into the conversation is this? How hot is she? What site is this?

but I might reply something like "yeah blind dates suck. that's why I wanted to talk to you on the phone first, to make sure you aren't really a scary man and to get to know you a bit." or something along those lines. If she is really stuck on not giving out her phone number OR meeting on blind dates, then I can't really fathom what possible purpose she has for being on a dating site. Dating pen pals?

you might have to build more comfort through messaging. perhaps try to get her to chat live. chatting is a lot more fluid and is a great way to build comfort.

Its on Facebook. We have been friends on facebook for some time now. She comments/and "likes" a lot of my status's and i do the same to hers. Comfort i dont think is an issue, shes from my home town but we've never met. OH and shes a bartender. HB81/2

Here's the convo and how it went so far


Me:
You wanna be on my talk show eh? Wha'ts up kiddo??

Her:
Kiddo again?..oh boy!

Me:
When are you free? You deserve someone like me

Her:
Oh do I?

Me:
True bill babydoll

Her:
Isn't this the same guy that on hois unoficial date got wasted and couldn't drive the girl home?

Me:
I'm honest, it happened and will never happen again. Started off on the wrong foot to begin with on that one....was at a bar.....crowded, how much can you get to know somebody in a setting like that??Maybe i'm just kinda old school but for a date i prefer something one on one at say a restaurant, not a sports bar. I know a place i wanna take you, its not to fancy but i assure you its the best italian you will ever eat My family has been going there for over 20 years.

Me:
I gtg tho headin to the gym, What's the digits kiddo?? I promise to only send you 50 creepy texts a day and call at 3 am breathing heavily

Her:
Haha.that's cutei just only give my number to close friends and family..never been on a "blind date"..
Me:
It's cool, no big deal.....just wanted to level with you somewhat. If you happen to change your mind, feel free to shoot me a text ***-**** ~ Jimmy

Her:
Its tempting.I just don't know how I feel about goin out with ppl from facebook..lol!..merr

Me:
ok i have to ask......what's with the merr stuff
lol

Me
??

Her:
Its my nickname..




Now what should i say???