Been texting this girl for a few days. I went sexual on the first text, she took the bait and we've been doing a bit of "roleplay" over text. She's going to LA tomorrow through Friday, and she told me I should go. I told her I had the vaca time, but I'd rather meet her here in town first. She offered to buy my plane ticket, too. But when I declined (my text went something like "I appreciate your offer, but I think we should meet here first before I fly out of state to stay at a hotel with you. It's crazy and sounds fun, though!" to which she replied "Oh yes, what was I thinking, crazy me"), she got real distant all of a sudden. So I asked her when she was coming back and set up a "date" when she flys back in. Was it dumb of me to decline? I mean, it would be easy to tell her that I changed my mind and would love to go, but what should I have done?

She texted me after she was weird talking about packing to leave, so I asked her if I could distract her tonight. She asked how, I gave her some shit "bowling and drinks" (we talked about bowling previously, she hasnt been in 10 years, lol). She declined because she has to be up early. Any ideas?

just go meet her.