thanks

She displays all the signs of an insecure girl who overcompensates by convincing herself she is great. It's all in the "meeeee" is anyone important enough to need that many letters in the word me. Neg the shit out of her.

Start by saying either
"yea heels keep you from doing a lot of things, like walking gracefully in your case"
or "yeah I guess ladies are kind of lame lol"
or "well don't feel to special it's not like your getting VIP seating or anything"

these are all decent (if not that well thought out) negs. I just based them on keywords in her text. So whenever you are trying to neg a girl just find the points she is trying to DHV with and twist them around.

EXAMPLE: her "This guy in the bar was hitting on me and felt bad cause I had to turn him down : ("

you "You should probably TURN DOWN the bragging or I might start HITTING my head against a wall"

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

If she's insecure I wouldn't neg her too bad though, keep it fun.

"awww it includes meeeee!, i feel special (:" ?
It's so I can spank your diva ass for not turning up last week!

Ps you're only invited if you wear minimum 5 inch heels...............diva

haha thanks guys!

lets see how it goes =]

oh shit she's negging back..
melodical i sent her what you told me and she responded telling me I should wear a skirt and she called me a weirdo...
""haha only if u wear a skirt ! weirdo. "

lol...

She's testing your frame, HB9+s do it on an unconscious level, she's probably posting on facebook now, "this guy is telling me what to wear on a date with him lol, who does he think he is!" Deep down in her mind the memories of a thousand wuss approaches are being remembered and contrasted, unconsciously she has put your status as above hers, attraction mechanisms are triggering.

You're probably the first person to interact with her in this way, I know its counterintuitive but it works.
Do it cocky funny though or you will come across as arrogant.

I don't know the details but as a guideline reply.

1/"You can tell a lot about a womans confidence by the height of her heels"

(A hoop for her to jump through implying if she's not confident then she won't wear them)

2/ "I want the hottest looking woman on my arm"

(Presupposses you date only the most attractive women, DHV social proof)

3/ " How many divas do you know would be seen dead in less than 4" heels"?

(This is based on a cultural/media johari window trait ascription by offering a hierachal fracture (Maslow) piggybacked to the behavior you wish to discourage.)

4/ Your a Diva...........diva lol.

haha dude you're a genius..

i seriously need to find e menality more like yours cause i get stumped thinking of cocky/funny stuff to say -.-

i told her that high heels usually tells about a womens confidence -

then she said she'd probably be taller than me in those high heels and started calling me 'honey' and told me she'd definitely try to go with me this weekend..

HAHA. so funny.