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Call me stupid but I want to know how one attracts a 9 or a 10 online. I am a fairly good looking man but I dont know what i am doing wrong. I seriously need some assistance. I attract alot of 5-6's but none higher. Please give me some knowledge guys. Im getting desperate.
The fact that you are desperate is probably why it's going to be near impossible to attract a 10.
Do you know how many e-mails gorgeous girls get a day online?
I mean look at a gorgeous girl offline for example just out in public.. sure she gets hit on a lot but most guys won't approach her for the simple fact they're scared.. but now that they're online they have the whole anonymous thing going on and the fact that if they get turned down it won't be as nerve wrecking or embarrassing because it's online, who cares?
I used to have a friend.. we'll call her J. J seriously (not even exaggerating) got 100 (near 100) e-mails a day on one site alone.. and this is a small town too.. just from this small town and surrounding small towns, 100 emails a day.
See this is where I'm at a crossroads on attracting a 10. You can't do the same game online that you do offline. You can't just pretend you don't care or pretend to be into her friend to make her jealous or grab her attention because online is a 1-on-1 conversation and chances are she doesn't care what you're saying while she's going through all those messages daily. Opinion openers and general questions still work well to get their attention via online but however online is different...
You have to somehow build comfort and come up with conversation and something different than all those other guys sending her random shit. She hears the same stuff every single day. Most of the messages are just brainless idiots who send stuff like:
"Will u send me nudez?"
"Sup girl u qt got cam"
"Hey girl wanna trade pics"
"Sup girl u beautiful lets hook up"
No, i'm not kidding.. generally those are what most messages say. If you don't believe me, make a fake profile (real enough looking) with a gorgeous girl's picture and watch your inbox flood. You'll get a lot of guys trying to suck up and prove they're "genuinely nice guys" too. That strategy is bogus because most women know you're probably talking bs.
I'm not good at getting respectable 10s from online to # or F close. I suck at it.. I've scored a lot of 5-6's and even a couple 7s before to F close but to be honest, I probably wasn't the first one and they weren't hard to get.. so yeah.
Somehow you have to stand out from hundreds of messages daily, and make them laugh from something they've never seen before. Then you have to build comfort through online to show them you're not a creep or some weird old guy posting on a fake profile. # close as quickly as you can.. don't pressure her but try to throw in hints and get that # as soon as possible. If you let the small useless chatter go on for too long she'll get bored and lose interest and move on.
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